I am praying for my husband to open his heart and let go of his anger for the mistakes that I have made in our marriage. I have not had an affair, but I caused us some financial harm and he feels that I have closed him off from my heart. I acknowledge his feelings, but I was trying to keep from being the type of woman I always heard him complain about and in turn caused him pain. Out of trying to respect him, I would not approach him and ask for love/affection because he would say he was tired. I'm sorry for not asking for more and being selfish in asking for his love. My husband has made mistakes himself and I am completely open to forgiving him and working on our marriage. I pray that he can get over his anger and God comes into his heart and lets him see what I am and his family (two young children) are willing to offer to him. With work, support, love, and faith, we can make great strides in the recovery of our relationship, love, marriage, and family. Please guide his heart back to his home and wife of 16 years. My heart and our home will always be open to him.