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Can you believe that? The reason she called my house was because she was so upset at me because I exposed her affair with my husband to her husband. I guess she was having such a bad day until she picked up the phone and called my home. She's all broken up because her husband doesn't want to have any thing to do with her. She says he's asked her over a 1000 questions and he hasn't returned home. He calls her names and is very nasty, rude and even appears to be not able to forgive her.  Funny thing is, part of me felt sorry for her because I know exactly how she's feeling. Then the other part of me is like "yes, the karma bus finally arrived and that's what you get  ". She was boo who crying because of the way he's treated her and the things he has been saying to her. I'm thinking lady, all the hell you've caused me these past months, you deserve what you get. I did encourage her a little by telling her it's going to take time and maybe he'll come around. But, part of me is celebrating and I feel a since of relief that she is in pain, the same pain that I have been in. I'm not that type of person but this has somewhat turned me into someone else.
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I would have said, "I'm sorry you have the wrong number." and then hung up on her. 
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Exactly. The affair between her and my husband happen July and August of last year. I told her husband January 10, 2010. So it's been a little over a month. I'm like what in the world do you expect, you want him to just say "cool" no problem.
I always told her that she was going to reap what she had sowed, I always told her that it's gonna come back on her. I don't think she believed me. Now she doesn't have my husband or her husband. So who got the last laugh? I'm laughing now!!!
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She has some nerve. Seriously.
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I would have politely invited her to DIAF, then told her to have a Coke and a Smile and ****edit****.
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I would have politely invited her to DIAF, then told her to have a Coke and a Smile and ****edit****. "DIAF?" Is that anything like ****edit****?
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Don't trust that skank further than you can throw her. Why wasn't she crying when she was boning your DH. Don't allow her to make you feel sorry for her. Ppl like her are like venomous snakes, as soon as you let your guard down they will bite you again. She needs to learn that there are consequences for our decisions and it is time that little miss floozy learns that her illicit behavior has caused her her M.
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I would have politely invited her to DIAF, then told her to have a Coke and a Smile and ****edit****. "DIAF?" Is that anything like ****edit****? DIAF is a special term of endearment meant only for a privileged few. Die In AFire
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Give her Gloria Allred's number.
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"DIAF?" Is that anything like ****edit****?
DIAF is a special term of endearment meant only for a privileged few.
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Give her Gloria Allred's number. THAT was priceless....... not2fun
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in the words of travis tritt:
Here's a quarter, call someone who cares!
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Contact thru Sept.09
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Will she call your H and cry on his shoulder? Put on your spying goggles. She's looking from sympathy somewhere.
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I found Gloria's number. It's 1-800-SORRY-HO.
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BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Since you have her BH's contact info, you might consider referring him to Dr. H's books and letting him know it's possible to recover his M.
As good as it feels that she's bawling, the fact still remains. A hoe trying desperately to restore her own M and become an ex-hoe is going to have a lot less time to come looking for your WH.
An OW who is left with no one often turns their energies to stalking. Trust me on this.
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An OW who is left with no one often turns their energies to stalking. Trust me on this. I trust you and I agree. 
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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Originally Posted By: Mulan
I found Gloria's number. It's 1-800-SORRY-HO
Yes...she should call Gloria Allred and demand an apology from you...priceless. The nerve of some people. How could she possibly think she deserves pity? How does she the OW call you? The audacity!
So much peeling...where am I under all this peeling? Yoo-hoo, are you in there...nothing yet.
Me FWW 30
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DD 2006
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Son 2
Trying to make amends for the huge mess I made.(If you knew Hubby you'd know what I mean by try)
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MarFor - oh yeah! 
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I'd rather have an OW in much less misery than she's due, and too busy to boil bunnies.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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