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Fredo spelled hoosegow correctly !

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POSOM/Toothless/cousin runs out on XWW AND gets thrown in the hoosegow and PSUbiker gets full custody, and WW will get to have her CS payments to her BH increased. TEEF

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PSU.....

I've been meaning to comment, err, I mean CONGRADULATE you on this.....

Did you have a good time CELEBRATING this??....If not, here's a round on me.... wink

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Originally Posted by barbiecat
What could you do to help the POSOM's XW to be present in court, or her representative, testify in front of the judge? Here in MI this can make an impact, (they can even read letters to the court at the trial) do you know how this works in MD?

--just a thought.

I'm going to head to the courthouse on Friday and get the details from his file. Depending on what I find, I may write his ex a letter explaining how much POSOM "made" while living with exWW at our old house. Perhaps she can get his income imputed with my help! grin

As long as he's living with exWW, he won't be able to hide forever because I'll just update his ex with his address!


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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
As long as he's living with exWW, he won't be able to hide forever because I'll just update his ex with his address!

You big meanie
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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
As long as he's living with exWW, he won't be able to hide forever because I'll just update his ex with his address!

You big meanie
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The big meanie sent a letter to POSOM's ex wife stating where he lived as well as all of the information needed if she wanted to get an income attachement as all of POSOM's court info states he works fo my exWW's business. grin


It will be lovebuster central at the Deadbeat Ranch if the ex wife requests that my exWW puts an income attachment on POSOM!


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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
It will be lovebuster central at the Deadbeat Ranch if the ex wife requests that my exWW puts an income attachment on POSOM!



so sad! grin


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
so sad! grin

Yes crybaby I'm housebroken.

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Originally Posted by chrisner
I wonder if he will run?

Both possibilities are delicious. wink

POSOM/Toothless/cousin/ get's thrown in the hoosgow hurray
POSOM/Toothless/cousin/ runs out on XWW. dance2

I cannot decide which one is my favorite think

My money is on BOTH happening.

Awesome news PSU.



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Originally Posted by Pepperband
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so sad! grin

Yes crybaby I'm housebroken.

It's about dern time!


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
It will be lovebuster central at the Deadbeat Ranch if the ex wife requests that my exWW puts an income attachment on POSOM!
She is going to blow a circuit! clap

I wonder if there will be an audible POP, followed by a slight buzzing sound and a little smoke from her ears when it happens? rotflmao


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((( PSUBIKER )))

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Originally Posted by Pepperband
((( PSUBIKER )))

Thanks Pep - the news about larry has me in a very triggery mood right now. POSOM did a number on me and exWW back when everything hit the fan when he made my very natural reactions to the sudden divorce look like an unstable lunatic to my exWW. Larry's attitude to what he did reminds me of POSOM.

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Like getting snake bite advice,

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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
Thanks Pep - the news about Larry has me in a very triggery mood right now.

I hug know. I could tell.

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PSUB;

What at this point, do you care about POSOM? You do not want XWW anymore, right? You have proper custody arrangement with your children- are you focusing on this too much?

I mean, is all this good for you?


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I can answer that...

UNTIL the moment that POSOM is completely out of his children's life FOREVER, PSU will REMAIN diligently upon him and concerned about him.

I can't begin to imagine the fear and anger PSU endures everytime he has to leave his kids anywhere near POSOM.

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