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#2333743 03/07/10 12:55 PM
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I am seriously feeling emotionally needy (sounds corny) but thats the only way I know to describe it. I have a WW that I am seperated from that is a 32 year old mother of four who has told me she wants to live life like a rock music video!

I am starting to have thoughts of giving up and looking elsewhere rather than hoping someone who cheated up me snaps out of the fog and handles her business of marrige. By her own admission, I am a good husband, person and father. I assume this maybe typical, but I am really starting to question the sanity of counting on another person to straighten up. I do love her, and I value my family above all, but I am so emotionally, mentally, and even at times physically drained that I feel like I am starting to put up walls and thinking about throwing in the towel.

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Originally Posted by wattaNmare
but I am so emotionally, mentally, and even at times physically drained that I feel like I am starting to put up walls and thinking about throwing in the towel.

This is why you should take a hard look at Plan B sooner rather than later. This will not get better, but worse. The only reason I suggest you try Steve Harley first is because her affair just ended 2 weeks ago. She may come around. But if she doesn't, you are better off going into a dark Plan B.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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