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I have a question...
I put a key logger on the computer and he found it...
So I have none now...
he found it in files or something
he is very computer smart works for the Gov...
so is there a way to get around that ????
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which keylogger did you use?
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I had a similar problem. People on here have suggested Eblaster. I didn't use that, as I no longer needed the keylogger because I had enough proof already. Someone on here also said that there is a keylogger out there that you would have to actually format the computer to remove it.
My WH also started using the on-screen keyboard when he typed in passwords so I wouldn't be able to see what there were. Maybe you should see about removing that as well.
What other spy techniques are you using?
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I am not using anything right now....
I don't know what to use
I am sure he would find it on here
He has told me if he finds me invading him again he will leave.
I told him he has my pass words because I have Nothing to hide..
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I put a key logger on the computer and he found it... which keylogger did you use? I am not using anything right now.... 
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LET HIM LEAVE. I don't think that anyone would want to live with someone who would leave because you are "INVADING" their prvacy. I think he is probably just gaslighting you so you will stop checking up on him. I hope you don't fall for it.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I can not remember the logger I used..
I paid around 89.00 for it...
trust me he can find anything on here..
computer smart I am not...
I had that file hid under ... quilt I want to do being I am a quilter
and have a lot of stuff on here about that... didn't think he would look there...
No I am not letting him gaslight me here...
I will keep checking up on him...
like I said I hired a PI in the past...
Now that upset him more then I can tell you ...
He said I was a crazy lady for the stuff I did to find out...
I told him if I was crazy there was a lot of things I could have done like key there cars and stuff which I didn't do...
I walked in one night she was at his place the first night he left here I couldn't get in touch with him... So I drove out there and she was there I didn't know he let me in...
I looked around she was hiding in the bedroom. I just shut the door didn't say a word to her....let him have it and I left...
said stuff like you said you loved me and that just because you moved out our relationship wasn't over...
He followed me home trying to tell me she was just a friend from work and that he needed someone to talk to... Yeah right...
he moved back home in 3 months..
And I have been trying to trust him which is what he says he wants me to do... How do you trust someone that you see is still sends email even thought it is just jokes ?????
I mean I have been working on this for 9 months now...
if it wasn't for the 5 year old I would have packed this in long ago I think....
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I can not remember the logger I used..
I paid around 89.00 for it...
trust me he can find anything on here..
computer smart I am not...
I had that file hid under ... quilt I want to do being I am a quilter You shouldn't have had to call it a file name. Did you elect that option when you installed it?
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no i was trying to hide it though...
he looks at all files...
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no i was trying to hide it though...
he looks at all files... What keylogger did you install? It should be undetected when running in stealth mode. It should have removed its own installation files. Can you find out the name?
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I use WebWatcher. Totally invisible (read the review in the link). Works like a charm. That being said, based on your posts, it looks like you need more than keylogging software. I hope you stay on this site and listen to the advice that you will get.
Me: BH 60 - Married 21 years
ExW had an EA beginning 09/09 (Facebook)
After a few false recoveries, I filed for D 05/11
D final 03/12
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I will try to find it
I have moved back to my other house since I used it...
Don't know if I can find it or not...
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Saw a cool little device that plugs in between the keyboard and the computer. It records everything typed, and is not software. I dont think your H would look on the back of his computer. Try looking up Hardware keylogger. Can range from $50-150.
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TY I will look for that right now...
Sounds good....
you are right don't think he would look at the back of the computer...
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TY I will look for that right now...
Sounds good....
you are right don't think he would look at the back of the computer...
TY Careful with this - if he found your internal keylogger he can find a device that's sticking out of his computer.
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I checked out web watcher
think he would fine this...
The one that goes in the back of the computer I don't think would be found...
He still has not sent her anything since our talk Friday...
But have found he can go a week or two without sending her any jokes..
So will see what he does here...
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