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Key logger #2333994 03/08/10 09:35 AM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122 S sunshine4848 OP Member
OP sunshine4848 Member S Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122	I have a question... I put a key logger on the computer and he found it... So I have none now... he found it in files or something he is very computer smart works for the Gov... so is there a way to get around that ????

Re: Key logger sunshine4848 #2334026 03/08/10 10:27 AM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,496 M MicheleG Member
MicheleG Member M Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,496	which keylogger did you use? BW(me) DDay EA 4/05 DDay PA 6/05 In recovery

Re: Key logger MicheleG #2334038 03/08/10 10:45 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 8,240 Ontario, Canada S Scotland Member
Scotland Member S Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 8,240 Ontario, Canada	I had a similar problem. People on here have suggested Eblaster. I didn't use that, as I no longer needed the keylogger because I had enough proof already. Someone on here also said that there is a keylogger out there that you would have to actually format the computer to remove it. My WH also started using the on-screen keyboard when he typed in passwords so I wouldn't be able to see what there were. Maybe you should see about removing that as well. What other spy techniques are you using? BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click here Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM �Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.� ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU

Re: Key logger Scotland #2334047 03/08/10 10:52 AM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122 S sunshine4848 OP Member
OP sunshine4848 Member S Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122	I am not using anything right now.... I don't know what to use I am sure he would find it on here He has told me if he finds me invading him again he will leave. I told him he has my pass words because I have Nothing to hide..

Re: Key logger sunshine4848 #2334054 03/08/10 11:06 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 300 I ImStaying Member
ImStaying Member I Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 300	Originally Posted by sunshine4848 I put a key logger on the computer and he found it... Originally Posted by MicheleG which keylogger did you use? Originally Posted by sunshine4848 I am not using anything right now....

Re: Key logger ImStaying #2334059 03/08/10 11:13 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 8,240 Ontario, Canada S Scotland Member
Scotland Member S Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 8,240 Ontario, Canada	LET HIM LEAVE. I don't think that anyone would want to live with someone who would leave because you are "INVADING" their prvacy. I think he is probably just gaslighting you so you will stop checking up on him. I hope you don't fall for it. BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click here Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM �Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.� ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU

Re: Key logger Scotland #2334063 03/08/10 11:23 AM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122 S sunshine4848 OP Member
OP sunshine4848 Member S Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122	I can not remember the logger I used.. I paid around 89.00 for it... trust me he can find anything on here.. computer smart I am not... I had that file hid under ... quilt I want to do being I am a quilter and have a lot of stuff on here about that... didn't think he would look there... No I am not letting him gaslight me here... I will keep checking up on him... like I said I hired a PI in the past... Now that upset him more then I can tell you ... He said I was a crazy lady for the stuff I did to find out... I told him if I was crazy there was a lot of things I could have done like key there cars and stuff which I didn't do... I walked in one night she was at his place the first night he left here I couldn't get in touch with him... So I drove out there and she was there I didn't know he let me in... I looked around she was hiding in the bedroom. I just shut the door didn't say a word to her....let him have it and I left... said stuff like you said you loved me and that just because you moved out our relationship wasn't over... He followed me home trying to tell me she was just a friend from work and that he needed someone to talk to... Yeah right... he moved back home in 3 months.. And I have been trying to trust him which is what he says he wants me to do... How do you trust someone that you see is still sends email even thought it is just jokes ????? I mean I have been working on this for 9 months now... if it wasn't for the 5 year old I would have packed this in long ago I think....

Re: Key logger sunshine4848 #2334119 03/08/10 12:40 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357 M maritalbliss Member
maritalbliss Member M Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357	Quote I can not remember the logger I used.. I paid around 89.00 for it... trust me he can find anything on here.. computer smart I am not... I had that file hid under ... quilt I want to do being I am a quilter You shouldn't have had to call it a file name. Did you elect that option when you installed it? D-Day 2-10-2009 Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever! Thank you Marriage Builders!

Re: Key logger maritalbliss #2334136 03/08/10 01:02 PM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122 S sunshine4848 OP Member
OP sunshine4848 Member S Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122	no i was trying to hide it though... he looks at all files...

Re: Key logger sunshine4848 #2334148 03/08/10 01:10 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357 M maritalbliss Member
maritalbliss Member M Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357	Originally Posted by sunshine4848 no i was trying to hide it though... he looks at all files... What keylogger did you install? It should be undetected when running in stealth mode. It should have removed its own installation files. Can you find out the name? D-Day 2-10-2009 Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever! Thank you Marriage Builders!

Re: Key logger sunshine4848 #2334251 03/08/10 03:28 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 940 Georgia L Linus Member
Linus Member L Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 940 Georgia	I use WebWatcher. Totally invisible (read the review in the link). Works like a charm. That being said, based on your posts, it looks like you need more than keylogging software. I hope you stay on this site and listen to the advice that you will get. Me: BH 60 - Married 21 years ExW had an EA beginning 09/09 (Facebook) After a few false recoveries, I filed for D 05/11 D final 03/12 'Be Mindful of Your Many Blessings and Endeavor Daily to be Worthy of Them' Jay Severin 'Life is a gift and it offers each of us the privilege, the opportunity and the responsibility to give something back by becoming something more' Tony Robbins

Re: Key logger maritalbliss #2334264 03/08/10 03:47 PM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122 S sunshine4848 OP Member
OP sunshine4848 Member S Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122	I will try to find it I have moved back to my other house since I used it... Don't know if I can find it or not...

Re: Key logger sunshine4848 #2334278 03/08/10 04:13 PM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 533 UT W Wheels_spinning Member
Wheels_spinning Member W Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 533 UT	Saw a cool little device that plugs in between the keyboard and the computer. It records everything typed, and is not software. I dont think your H would look on the back of his computer. Try looking up Hardware keylogger. Can range from $50-150.

Re: Key logger Wheels_spinning #2334593 03/09/10 08:54 AM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122 S sunshine4848 OP Member
OP sunshine4848 Member S Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122	TY I will look for that right now... Sounds good.... you are right don't think he would look at the back of the computer... TY

Re: Key logger sunshine4848 #2334598 03/09/10 09:07 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357 M maritalbliss Member
maritalbliss Member M Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 12,357	Originally Posted by sunshine4848 TY I will look for that right now... Sounds good.... you are right don't think he would look at the back of the computer... TY Careful with this - if he found your internal keylogger he can find a device that's sticking out of his computer. D-Day 2-10-2009 Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever! Thank you Marriage Builders!

Re: Key logger Linus #2335080 03/10/10 08:38 AM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122 S sunshine4848 OP Member
OP sunshine4848 Member S Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 122	I checked out web watcher think he would fine this... The one that goes in the back of the computer I don't think would be found... He still has not sent her anything since our talk Friday... But have found he can go a week or two without sending her any jokes.. So will see what he does here...

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