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Waywards, you deserve what you get, no matter how "repented" you are. You repented for you, not the betrayed.


Pariah,
Do you feel there is anything that I could do to pay my debt to my former husband?


Me-41 BS (FWS)
DH-41 WS (FBS)
2DD's- 10 and 12
Married 15 years
Separated for 2 years after my A
Reconciled for 1 year before his A
D-day for his A 8/23/05
WH moved out 9/16/05
Divorce final 1/23/07
Affair ended or month or so later
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Thanks folks, I think I understand now. think

I am still curiouse about exactly how Dawn has suffered. dramaqueen


Me 34
WW 30
Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08.
Returned home Jul 7th, OC born 12/30/08
The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.
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Waywards, you deserve what you get, no matter how "repented" you are. You repented for you, not the betrayed.


Pariah,
Do you feel there is anything that I could do to pay my debt to my former husband?

That's up to him. His price for the destruction of the family is up to him. All of our prices are different. OM's price is far greater than XWW's. XWW's merely monitary, but OM needs to leap into a wood chipper.

If your AP was married, you REALLY need to worry about one day becoming payday. And are you willing to pay the price to the BS?


I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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SugarCane, your post was eloquent and right on target. I only pray that this MM doesn't come knocking at Dawn's door again because she will surely give in to him AGAIN. Her poor H.

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>I'm still hoping one day that OMW will snap and feed XW a face full of 12guage.


Why would you wish for another Betrayed to do something that will hurt herself?

Rather than wishing the BW do it, I hope that your xww and OM do it to each other!


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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