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Halloween is my H birthday, and last I heard the Ow is flying in for his birthday.... I have been trying to keep at Plan A, even though he has moved out 6 weeks ago....<P>I thought I would try to get him something special for his birthday.. does anyone have any ideas? I just thought if it was something special... it may trigger memories that would be hard to ignore.... Thanks for the suggestions.
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Joined: Sep 1999
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Irma, I don't know if it's a good idea to give him something since he's not living with you, but if you do, it has to be something that HE would like to have. And you are the only one to know what would surprise him. Sorry, I'm not much help.
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I guess that perhaps I didn't word my question correctly, and I also wanted to bring it back to the top to see if I got anymore responses.<P>As I have been in Plan A since he told me that he isn't "in love" with me, but that he loves me. His birthday is coming soon, and I wanted to know if getting him something for his birthday would be wrong or foolish.<P>I still want us to work this out, and I am not trying to compete with the OW (couldn't do that now if I wanted to). My H is a sentimental person, and I just thought I may be able to stir up some memories..... and maybe have him think about working on this a little sooner....
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