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Is it me or is there a rash of celebrity cheating lately? I didn't even know these two were even married(Jesse James and Sandra Bullock) and now I hear of alleged cheating? He says he didn't do it, but I have my doubts. Oh, and the other woman is calling herself a bombshell?? Any thoughts on this? Does anyone know any more than this limited info?
http://omg.yahoo.com/news/jesse-jam...lock-following-infidelity-rumor/37681?nc I found this link, but I am not sure how accurate it is.

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So much peeling...where am I under all this peeling? Yoo-hoo, are you in there...nothing yet.

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Eeeek - depends on your definition of bombshell! To me she looks nasty, feel like I caught some kind of cooties just looking at her on the monitor. Nothing against tats, but do they really need to be everywhere? Even covering the arm pits?

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Lol If yawanna be jesses girl...


Im sorry I just couldn't help it


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There's not a "rash" of cheating anywhere. It's just that in the Internet/cable TV age, we're hearing a lot more about it.

Personally, I think it's a very good thing that every celebrity ho is marching out with every nasty detail of her story. Gives the cheating men an idea of what they can expect. Maybe, just maybe, some of those men would think twice - or at the very least, just dump the family and get a divorce *first* so they aren't tormenting a wife and children with a cheater's lies, neglect, disease and disrespect.

For up-to-the-minute detail on Jesse James and Tiger Woods, go to tmz.com or radaronline.com.


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Originally Posted by Mulan
Personally, I think it's a very good thing that every celebrity ho is marching out with every nasty detail of her story. Gives the cheating men an idea of what they can expect. Maybe, just maybe, some of those men would think twice - or at the very least, just dump the family and get a divorce *first* so they aren't tormenting a wife and children with a cheater's lies, neglect, disease and disrespect.
Nah.

No one thinks or expects to "get caught." That's for "other people." Ask any alcoholic who's been arrested for drunk driving, for example...


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Hmmm, is he denying anything? Or is he admitting to it by his apology?


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Last I heard, he gave a rather weak apology but has been photographed out about town with his young kids (from previous marriages) wearing his wedding ring.

The troubling thing is that no one is reporting Sandra's whereabouts. No one seems to know where she is. Hope she's okay. Really.


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Hmmm, makes me wonder about the divorce from his first wife.


I also hope Sandra is OK. Everyone seems more concerned about the actual cheating and not the one who was cheated on.


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I wish that I had Jesses Girl..Ladadaladada
Jesses Girl... Ladadadada..

Where can I find a woman..

Where can I find a woman..


Where can I find a WOman- with.- tats?....


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Ah I really like Sandra Bullock too. I saw her on Charlie rose and she impressed me as a genuine person.


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>Where can I find a WOman- with.- tats?..

Swing a dead cat?


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Originally Posted by Dealan-de
>Where can I find a WOman- with.- tats?..

Swing a dead cat?

UM.... I dunna understan...
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You can't swing a dead cat without hittin' a woman with tats.

Trust.


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oh lol now i get it


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Originally Posted by Dealan-de
You can't swing a dead cat without hittin' a woman with tats.

Trust.

Huh?


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Lol well 02, I guess what it means is that a lot of women have tats now.

Its like being in a hospital and not being able to swing a dead cat without hitting a sick person or a doctor..

I remeber the saying now.. Have no idea why it has to be dead cats.


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Ohhhh, I get it lol....wow I feel dense. (psst...no tats over here lol)


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I did a couple of "jailhouse" style tats on myself and my friends when I was 15-16 years old. Not real big ones and they are the india ink kind...


When I got older and had allredy regreted them for a few years , lol, People used to ask me what they meant. I said "They symbolize and mean that you raelly are dumb when you are 15 years old.."

That was in the 70s and the tattoo craze didn't get into full swing till what, the mid-90s?. My son has a couple. One that he did in honor of his Mom and one he did with yes....his old girlfriend.. Im not a tat guy but many ppl are now. Its just artwork I guess but the BADboy and tramp stamp stigma that comes with them is what I try to stay away from personally. I got over being a badboy a year before my 1st son was born when I was 17. Tats were assoiciated with deliquentcy then in the 70s and I would rather have had job oportunitys.

I fantasize about paying someone big bucks to remove the two i have off my arm wile my son tells me to get a new one . lol


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Story today is that Sandra is talking to divorce lawyers. It's really too bad for the kids involved. By all accounts, Sandra had become very close to Jesse's children (she has no kids of her own) and was instrumental in his getting custody away from his ex, who is/was a porn actress.

Too bad Sandra can't just take the kids herself and get them away from those lunatics.

BTW - the Nazi freak with whom Jesse was cheating? She has a son named "Avery". Her stripper name is "Avery". How much sicker can you get?


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Originally Posted by Mulan
BTW - the Nazi freak with whom Jesse was cheating? She has a son named "Avery". Her stripper name is "Avery". How much sicker can you get?

We will have to wait and see Im sure its not over...Just when ya think you've seen it all someone does something worse or stranger so they can top the list of "look at meeeeeeee"

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