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#2341245 03/23/10 10:35 AM
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Sure their soul mates. Sure they're kindred spirits. They're both selfish.

Is there any word that describes infidelity better?


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Nope, don't think so.....


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Some other words in consideration:

Disappointing.
Discouraging.
Sleezy.
Smarmy.
Scummy.
Horrible.
Awful.
Terrible.
Deceitful.
Dishonest.
Cruel.
Stupid.
A**holes.
F**kers.
B*stards.
Snakes.
Skunks.
Devils.

Did I miss anything?

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Originally Posted by TryingEverything
Is there any word that describes infidelity better?

I am partial to ADULTERY

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My mother would wash my mouth out with soap if I said any of the words that come to my mind!

All of the words I am talking about, as well as those listed in this thread are descriptive words that, for me, fail to cover it all. Even strung all together, these words never feel fully descriptive.

I'm with Pep in that the word ADULTERY carries the single most relevant meaning & connotation.

JMHO.


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Originally Posted by Bugsmom
I'm with Pep in that the word ADULTERY carries the single most relevant meaning & connotation.

It's just so BIBLICAL to say "adultery".

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I am partial to ADULTERY [/quote]

Cheating.



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I was going to say "Despicable" but I keep hearing Daffy Duck saying it.

I will have to go along with ADULTERY and think of the SCARLET LETTER.

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Originally Posted by Scotland
I was going to say "Despicable" but I keep hearing Daffy Duck saying it.

I will have to go along with ADULTERY and think of the SCARLET LETTER.

A

'Nuff said laugh

Just had an evil thought when I read this.....

How about sending a nice red velvet A, some thread and a needle to WW?

Eh, guess that wouldn't be plan A'ing her would it. Plus she doesn't know how to sew.

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D - Day: 11/7/2009
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Broke NC: 11/9/2009
D - Day 2: ~ 12/10/2009
Started Plan A: 1/8/2010
Found MB: 1/13/2010
Ended it with OM: 1/22/2010 ???
Filed for Divorce: 4/9/2010

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