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I've been looking back at some of my old posts for some good friends of ours who are also going through this and I am amazed at how far we have come and all I can say is...thank you, MB!!
It's true, this stuff really does work!
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks. 
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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
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Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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![[Linked Image from i30.tinypic.com]](http://i30.tinypic.com/2lstrp4.jpg) FANTASTIC!
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I'm really happy for you and your family!
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His PA 2003-2006
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WONDERFUL!!!! 
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.
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I am amazed at how far we have come and all I can say is...thank you, MB!! You have no idea how big the smile is on my face! It ain't easy, but it's so worth it. Kudos to both of you. 
M'd 22 years
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MF: You have been in this ride as long as we have. And a similar one at that. I agree with this: It's true, this stuff really does work! Yes, it does. LG
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Thank you everyone!
Someday I will sit down and post our whole journey...because I hope that it will give others hope that even after the devastation of an affair, you really can have a marriage better than ever.
We are not done healing...and certainly not done learning. But we can now see the end of the tunnel and it's exciting!
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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Someday I will sit down and post our whole journey...because I hope that it will give others hope that even after the devastation of an affair, you really can have a marriage better than ever. I look forward to that, Married!
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Sugar:
Just click on her name, and go to her first posts.
You can get the day by day play by play.
You don't want the Cliffs Notes version...
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Oh, I've read them, lg, and I feel empathy with Married because of our false recoveries.
I have the feeling that there is a gap in the story. It is pretty detailed up until the point where they went to the MB weekend, but as things have improved, I think the storytelling tailed off.
I want MarriedForever to bring us right up to date!
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I will do this as soon as I can, guys...right now DH and I are putting a lot of energy into helping some good friends of ours who are in the very early stages of recovery and that's where our focus is right now.
DH is being AMAZING in his help and for that I am so very thankful...
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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DH is being AMAZING in his help and for that I am so very thankful...
Admiration for his efforts will lead to nothing but happiness.
Many couples in recovery never reach this point.
With many couples, they will compliment their spouse's efforts, then, it is usually followed by a "but" ....
YOU did NOT do that.
You have gone to the next level.
Praise God!
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I've been looking back at some of my old posts for some good friends of ours who are also going through this and I am amazed at how far we have come and all I can say is...thank you, MB!!
It's true, this stuff really does work! 
BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011
Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
--------Eleanor Roosevelt
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DH is being AMAZING in his help and for that I am so very thankful...
Admiration for his efforts will lead to nothing but happiness.
Many couples in recovery never reach this point.
With many couples, they will compliment their spouse's efforts, then, it is usually followed by a "but" ....
YOU did NOT do that.
You have gone to the next level.
Praise God!
Yes Pep...Praise God! Thank you. Thank you b_r too!
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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