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WH's birthday is on Saturday. I am glad I am working. I will be keeping busy. It's gonna feel sucky but as always, I will get through it.  Yes, I know you will get through it because I did. My WH's birthday was a week ago today, and I thought about that stupid %^&* all day. Well, I mean that I thought about my H all day, certainly not WH. I couldn't get DDs to make him a card, call him, nothing. They really see that WH is not the same person that their dad was. Either my children are extremely perceptive or WH has indeed changed that much in personality (maybe a bit of both). Anyways - Scotty, you WILL persevere because you ROCK! 
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2 DDs
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DDay Spring 2009
WH moves out Summer 2009 and in with OW
Plan A - 4 months
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WH files D Summer 2010
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Thanx AM. FWIW, the kids CAN tell that WH isn't dear daddy anymore. DS9 said yesterday that it was funny because only bad things have happened to WH since he left. HAHAHAHA My kids are GREAT. DS9 also said, "Mommy, how long ago was December?" I said, "4 months ago, WHY?" He said, "That's how long Daddy has been gone for." I said, "Yes on Sunday it will be 4 months since Daddy left. How do you feel about that? You know that you can tell Daddy about your feelings right? You should tell him." I don't know if he will but he knows he can tell me.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I love our kids!! 
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WH - 45
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WH moves out Summer 2009 and in with OW
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WH files D Summer 2010
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Yes, I know you will get through it because I did. My WH's birthday was a week ago today, and I thought about that stupid %^&* all day.
Let's see if it works for Scottyville.
Get a big empty pickle jar. (any jar, I just like the idea of a pickle jar)
Have a lot of coins on hand. (You determine the Canadian coin that will work for you).
Every time you have a thought (good/bad/indifferent) about WH .... you drop a coin into the WH pickle jar. (because he's in a pickle)
The end of the week, you spend the $$$ on some recreational activity for you and the boys. However far it gets you.
Half a pizza, whatever.
That way, these thoughts are not wasted, they are used for the greater good of all mankind and the entire planet will reap rewards. (maybe, I exaggerate a little)
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Okay, sounds GREAT. I will do that. Man, I am gonna use LOONIES HAHAHAHAHA How does that sound? I am gonna go broke. HEHEHEHE. I just thought that maybe Loonies would be fitting, goes along with the pickle jar. I will start tomorrow.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Okay, sounds GREAT. I will do that. Man, I am gonna use LOONIES HAHAHAHAHA How does that sound? I am gonna go broke. HEHEHEHE. I just thought that maybe Loonies would be fitting, goes along with the pickle jar. I will start tomorrow.
Have the boys decorate the jar. (should be interesting)
Be sure you call it "Daddy's in a pickle jar" ....
They will not be able to resist sharing their beautious pickle jar with ..... other people.
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.... and, I am off to Google LOONIES ....
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These are the cutest dollar coins, evah !
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HAHAHAHAHA LOL Pep. HAHAHAHAHA Oh I am crying because I am laffing so hard. I know that the jar won't be as full as 4 months ago. Maybe I can take the kids to 7-11 for slurpees. It's sllurpee season again. WOOOHOOOO. THis is great because it shows me how much I think of.....well him.....and it will also help with Plan Aing the boys.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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HAHAHAHAHA LOL Pep. HAHAHAHAHA Oh I am crying because I am laffing so hard. I know that the jar won't be as full as 4 months ago. Maybe I can take the kids to 7-11 for slurpees. It's sllurpee season again. WOOOHOOOO. THis is great because it shows me how much I think of.....well him.....and it will also help with Plan Aing the boys.
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Many people keep our coins as souvenirs when they leave. We have toonies as well. They are also cute 2 dollar coins. Yes us Canadians are WEIRD. HAHAHAHA. Now, I am not going to include the times when I am posting on here. I need this place to vent. But everything else is fair game.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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WH's birthday is on Saturday. I am glad I am working. I will be keeping busy. It's gonna feel sucky but as always, I will get through it. Yes, I know you will get through it because I did. My WH's birthday was a week ago today, and I thought about that stupid %^&* all day. Well, I mean that I thought about my H all day, certainly not WH. I couldn't get DDs to make him a card, call him, nothing. They really see that WH is not the same person that their dad was. Either my children are extremely perceptive or WH has indeed changed that much in personality (maybe a bit of both). Anyways - Scotty, you WILL persevere because you ROCK! Oh my g@d! I choked on my wine!
Me; W 46
Him; H 46
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Dated/Married total 28 years.
..I am learning and working on myself.
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You do rock, Scotty! It sounds like you have had a few rough days; but you amaze me with your strength and ability to turn what you are feeling into a way for personal growth.
I keep trying to be as positive and upbeat as you have been.
And I know from reading your thread that you don't suck; but the situation we have been put into certainly does.
Now I am going to have to google loonies!
Me:BW
Dday:12/31/09-Found MB 01/03/10
3DstepChildren24&20
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PlanB:03/25/10
D final 11/15/10
"I dare you to find some time and some place to be silent for longer than usual; a few moments, a few minutes, a few hours. Listen to your heart, listen to your soul; and most importantly, listen to the silence to see what it sounds like and how it speaks to you."
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LOL! Loooooove the idea!!!!!!!!!! Now, as to what your mom told OM about "she accepts the presents because they're from me," that was priceless. In some circles, it might even be considered a lovebuster.  Yep, mom's A is not doing so well at the moment. Neither is WH's, but you're not supposed to think about that. You just did anyway because I said it, so go drop your loonie and move on.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
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Thanx a lot NEAK. I didn't need help. The jar is up to 10 loonies already and it is only 123pm.....I am gonna be in the poor house, but the kids will be happy. We can have slurpees everyday if they want HAHAHAHA.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Well done Pep. Go drop your loonie and move on HAHAHAHA I am dropping them today. No more since my last post. That's GREAT news for MEEEEE. I will be eating pickles with dinner so I can have an empty jar. I think I need to buy the loonies from the bank by the ROLL(25 each). HEHEHEHEHE Funny thing is that when I looked on Sunday, I thought about how I told Atena not to do EXACTLY what I was doing. That's why I got so mad at myself. I knew I shouldn't but I did it anyways. 
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BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Oh my goodness, I just have to share how much I love the loonies! That is as great idea to drop those in a jar for your thoughts... wonder if I should do that every time I think of FOW...
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Oh my goodness, I just have to share how much I love the loonies! That is as great idea to drop those in a jar for your thoughts... wonder if I should do that every time I think of FOW... 
For that, you need a "spit jar".
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I thought it was a brilliant idea. If you see it being a good thing for you as well, I say GO FOR IT. Oops maybe NOT HAHAHAHA Pep says
Last edited by Scotland; 04/13/10 12:53 PM.
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