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i want to find OW's husband- not her. how do i find out who he is.

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If you know her name, try http://www.intelius.com/


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Did you try everything that was suggested in your last thread? That way people are not giving you repeat information. Sites like intelius and spokeo sometimes list the spouse information.


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okay i'm back. not much time on the computer usually.

i have tried all of these . there is not mention of her husband. maybe it is not her real name?

i have some phone numbers because i have some bills. these are all from 2005 though and i know she had some fake number that had our area code evn though she is from southern california. my partner claims to have nothing to do with this phone. is it possible for her to buy a phone with our area code and her billing address not matching. am i making myself clear hear? i don't feel very clear today.

so what i have- her name which may or may not be fake because i couldn't find anyhing about it anywhere on the internet except an old "modeling and actress" promotional site that was probably made just for my partner as it was made about one week before he flew to see her. i talked to her once 3 years ago- right after d-day- and she denied averything. i never should have bothered.

but i think she is married. why would my partner have to stay in a hotel room when he visited her.

will i ever find out


i will be back again. gotta get our kids off for school.

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also- when i type our phone number into spokeo-it is wrong
i wonder why


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