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{{{{{Opt}}}}}} You "grew" a lot......YOU did that, all MB and we did was hand you the tools. Its what you do with them that matters...in the grand scheme of things.... I'm very proud of you and proud to know you.... Not ps...I will keep my mouth shut from here forward on the dating scene..... 
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Thanks Opt. You have helped me a bunch during this most difficult time as well. I'm sorry it ended the way it did, but maybe that's the way it was supposed to end.
Wish you the best of luck as you move forward. Stay in touch around here if you can. Your experience and wisdom can still help many others.
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I wish everyone who comes here could find a way to save their marriage, I really do. I know that's not possible. What is possible is that you can find the positive in the nightmare of infidelity if you work hard to find it. Hey Opt, I am thankful for the opportunity to hear your story and to watch you evolve through your journey.... Sure, I'm no Nostradamus, but I do see good things for you in the future. Really good things. You have earned the privilege of experiencing them -- all of them. Enjoy the journey.... TBC
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BIG man-hug for Opt. (((((Opt)))))
Don't ever forget how much you have helped many of us here, and I'm a great example. My situation may not turn out that great, but I'm a better man than I was when I started here, and you're a part of that.
Hard to imagine at this time, but I do believe that you're in a better place, and there are many good things down the road for you.
Seems like you, Limbo and I came to MB about the same time. We have become kindred spirits, in a way. As Limbo says, please stay in touch. You have a LOT to bring to others who will come here. I have no doubt there will be thousands with the same story as you and Limbo and I, that being spouses who started EAs and PAs where social websites played a huge part.
Godspeed, my friend.
Linus
Me: BH 60 - Married 21 years
ExW had an EA beginning 09/09 (Facebook)
After a few false recoveries, I filed for D 05/11
D final 03/12
'Be Mindful of Your Many Blessings and Endeavor Daily to be Worthy of Them'
Jay Severin
'Life is a gift and it offers each of us the privilege, the opportunity and the responsibility to give something back by becoming something more'
Tony Robbins
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