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ps..... And since we should NEVER judge others, I will be highly offended if anyone judges my spelling and gramatical errors......  ...um...that would be TWO m's in 'grammatical'. Two.  I'm not a believer in never judging others. 
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Well now you have done it, Maritalbliss, you have offended Not. Now, I too am ofended.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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did you judge your wife at all mr w ?
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Yes I was unfaithful in my first marriage. I knew it was wrong and regretted, and still do, my actions. When I met my (now) wife i fell totally in love, but was not really prepared or it and took action to ensure she and I and my children from the first marriage were all OK. Not ideal, but that's the way it panned out. Karma
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Well now you have done it, Maritalbliss, you have offended Not. Now, I too am ofended. Okay, let's be ofended toggether, how's that? 
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thanks maimai. Whats your story ?
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did you judge your wife at all mr w ? I dont think Mr.W was saying you shouldnt be judgemental. That was you, Bingo. Eh, but what do I know?
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dude 007. If that were the case, how come my current relationship lasted longer than my previous marriage ? The longer the affariage, the larger the Karma bus. DUDE This makes an excellent siggy.
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I miss Dude. 
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She was not my wife and I did not judge. I was upset, but as I have said earlier, we cannot own or control anyone, and if I were in her shoes at that time, I would have done that and worse. We weren't even together at the time. What even gave you the right to be "upset". "Upset" about what? This thread is titled "I cannot get over my wifes one night stand", but you weren't married to her or even "together at the time" and you don't claim she did anything wrong (as she has the right to set her own rules and live her life how she chooses)... so... It appears there was never a problem you needed help with in the first place.. which... kinda makes you a troll (just talking nonsense for nonsenses sake), or perhaps, mentally ill (untreated) and lacking "sense" at all, doesn't it? Mr. W
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i have no idea what a siggy is ?
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stilhere. I was not suggesting that one should not be judgmental about ones own relationship. surely using judgement is a good thing in a marriage. After all, it's team work.
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did you judge your wife at all mr w ? You betcha.
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stilhere. I was not suggesting that one should not be judgmental about ones own relationship. surely using judgement is a good thing in a marriage AFFAIRAGE . After all, it's team work.
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stilhere. I was not suggesting that one should not be judgmental about ones own relationship. surely using judgement is a good thing in a marriage. After all, it's team work. Unless you were never in love in the first place and only married out of obligation.
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There is TWO l's in Stillhere....count em, Two.....Just kiddin Bingo. I got a little caught up in the gramatical judging... And dont call me Shirley.
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stilhere. I was not suggesting that one should not be judgmental about ones own relationship. surely using judgement is a good thing in a marriage. After all, it's team work. You are also in a "relationship" with your children...do they get to be "judgmental" of you too??? W
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There is TWO l's in Stillhere....count em, Two.....Just kiddin Bingo. I got a little caught up in the gramatical judging... And dont call me Shirley. ...um, that would be "there ARE", still. There "are" two l's. :::ducking::: Okay, I'll quit. Scout's honor. 
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i was in my marriage out of obligation. I had left my first wife, then girlfriend as it was a very on and off relationship when she announced that she was 4 months pregnant. I stayed at the age of 20 because I thought it the right thing to do. I have no regrets as my two older kids are adorable, live with me a great deal of the time and the eldest is going to become a Doctor soon. I'm a proud Father.
My ex wife sees all of my children and we have a pretty good relationship really.
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