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cinderella #2364107 04/28/10 11:09 AM
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Okay, first of all, Mark, where on earth did you find that Mentally challanged smiley with the cookie sign and is that supposed to be you?

And second, cinderella, what the h$ll are you putting in your kool-aid?


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Okay and third...does anyone else have a problem with letting the villagers of IDIOTVILLE out to post to other threads on a regular basis?


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Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile
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Much better, cinderella! And more in keeping to the image you want to project. smile


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I do something like that "Africa" thing with my students every year.

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Mel, are you familiar with MONPA?

Luri, since you are not a cat-person, you don't need to look.

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Still, I gave up kool-aid for something with less artificial color. I'm drinking my water tall and neat.

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I am also a water drinker, good for you cind....So if it is not the Kool-aid then what is it. smile


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I am engaged in a vigorous effort to look as if I am working. Our work load is 'feast or famine'. Today is the 4th Wednesday so I may be absolutely slammed at work for the next few weeks.

Hmmm, I didn't take my ADD meds the last couple of days. I wonder if that has something to do with it.

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I have a t-shirt that says:

I don't have ADD, it's just that...

Oh look! A bunny rabbit!

DD hates it when I wear it smile

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You know, I totally understand. I havent' really had anything I needed to focus on latel.....you know, we don't have that many dogs in our neighborhhood.

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Still,

The smiley comes from Cool-Smileys

Some time ago, while coaching someone in Plan A, it was suggested that when the WS begins making stupid comments, wanting to "talk things through" or generally says something that the typical WS tends to say, it be acknowledged, ala Orchid's Reverse Babble and then the subject should be changed.

Example:

WS: "I am so sick of living like this."
BS : "Me too. Want a cookie?"

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Mark1952 #2364283 04/28/10 02:14 PM
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You guys are so funny, all of yous....Mark I love those but I also think that they are so perfect coming from you, I would never use them here...and I love the cookie thing..I think I am gonna use that when I have encounters with WH now, I love it.

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Mark, but I did find this perfect one to use on Mels thread. And you have created monster, I love these smileys. I gotta use some.


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married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
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Perfect!! Thanks Still!


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Originally Posted by stillhere8126
Okay and third...does anyone else have a problem with letting the villagers of IDIOTVILLE out to post to other threads on a regular basis?
hey! I resemble that remark. smile

Ummm...still honey YOU are now a nearly official resident of Idiotville. think lashes twoxfour


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Ok, I'm gonna bump this thread for no other reason but I'm done with my paper so MelodyLane can't scold me anymore! stickout


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BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile
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