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#2367667 05/04/10 04:45 PM
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What would you say is worse d-day or knowing the time frame it happened?

I found out he had his affair a couple of weeks after our anniversary which also just happens to be my birtday month...

It feels like this month is so special to me any more. Is this normal?


M: 2 1/2 years
Bestfriends Brother. Known for 20yrs.
W:33
H:30
Kids: 5
found out about affair in Feburary 2010
Affair happened in May of 2009 lasted 3wks with sister
Sister lived in the home
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Yeah, unfortunately it is perfectly normal. Sorry, jearnshaw. But eventually it will be special to you again.


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile

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