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I am glad I found this site. I did a search on fixing a broken marriage and Dr. Harley's books came up repeatedly.
I will briefly tell you all about my situation, which makes me very sad indeed.
My DH of 23 years left yesterday for another business trip. He typically travels between 5 to 10 days per month. My kids are grown and out of the house. I'm lonely. This is no excuse for the behaviors in which I've engaged. During my time alone, I've developed a obsession with pornography. My DH figured this out and was highly offended. He felt this was dirty and a violation of our marriage.
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I've been reading on this site and addressing my addiction. I am going for face to face support and have revealed this to my dh, but he cannot forgive me.
Is it possible to regain trust? I want to be the bonded christain woman I once was.
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Please read this link, and read as much as you can about the Marriage Builders Program. LINK to basic concepts
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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Will do tst...I'm reading as much as I can and just ordered two books.
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Sorry you're here TFP. I give you a lot of credit for wanting to make a positive change and eliminate a behavior you feel was destructive in your life. You will find a lot of support here regardless of what path lies ahead for you. Based on what you've said so far, there is hope for your marriage. In the mean time, keep doing what you can to make a better TFPeace.
keep us posted.
~optimism
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what books did you order?
Me: 43 y.o. BFWH, D-day 11/11/09 (NC since 9/01) Divorce from WW final 9/16/10. Current Status: MB-based Marriage to Nature Girl 12/8/12 (first date on 12/11/10) Mine: S(16), D(11) NatureGirls: S(23), D(21) Another EA Story
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