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I have read lot's of topics here and over on MB101....and I see lot's of posts saying that privacy in a marriage doesn't exist outside of the bathroom LOL!
Does this apply to marriages that haven't been affected by affairs also? is this Dr.H's advice....that my spouse and I should know about each others email accounts/passwords and so on??
Just curious and thanks for the clarification!
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There should be no secrets in a marriage and in today's world you can hide so much with email, texting, facebook I think it should be available to your spouse, just another way to be transparent and to be honest......shows you mean what you say when you give them access to your personal accounts........just a thought
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Married 25 years, live together for 2, dated 2 years before that.....
DS 23, DS 25
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I agree. Why not just be transparent from the get go?
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