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i dont know if she is going to go thru with the D or not but we are living like its done already. i have access to the kids whenever i need/want. i give her $$$ weekly. we chat here and there and its all fun and no drama like it was when we were in high school. its like we are best friends again we talk about any and everything. i dont know what to make of this i mean it is so weird and confusing i just felt like sharing and input or thoughts

FYI - our official anniversary was 04/28 and she cut class to come hang with me at my place and we had dinner and wine watched tv and cracked jokes it was a great nite that will probably never happen again


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so today she tells me that she regrets telling me that she wants a D and that she likes the way things are between us now. she doesnt want to rush or do something drastic. i dont know if it means anything or if she just needed her need fullfilled but we had sex twice this weekend. i am still confused about this whole thing


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NAL, it seems there is plenty to work on and you are on the wrong topic. Why don't you tell the modifiers to move your threat to something more appropriate. I came on here long after hope was gone, so I'm not sure where your thread should be. But I hear the MB program and concepts are very good. Can someone tell him where he should be.

Good luck!!!!!!

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Ahhh, no wonder I'm having such a hard time keeping up with your thread, NAL, you seem to have several going at once.

Yeah, I agree with fellspointmom, I would have the mods here move your thread(s) to where they feel it the most appropriate. I don't really know exactly "where" it/they should go, either, because, one day you are talking D and the next...not even close.

If you could, please submit a request to the mods here asking them to [combine/move] your threads so that it would be easier for all to keep track of. The easier your thread is for us to find, the easier it is for us to offer you advice.

Thanks so much. :-)


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DH45 - ME43 - DD18 - DD15

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