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#2374294 05/16/10 02:26 AM
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how do you move on after the ww tells she she leaving you . in the next couple weeks after our daughters graduation & party on the 20 june she said she's leaving not immediatly but sometime day a week who knows , she told me to move on find someone else ( I'm still married ) I've been married 24 yrs how do you get over 24 yrs of marriage and move on and with 3 kids.
from the out side looking in we look like the happy family and we get along well the kids are oblivious at this point i don't want my daughters graduation ruined & and before that her senior year of school with this situation if you read my earlier posts you kinda get a better history of were it was at and how far along this has gone i'm at a loss where do go from here? her one sister is aware of the A she not happy Ive been talking to her alot .but i find my family brother & sister ive talked with them they will listen but in seems like there some what avoidant after telling them about the A even my friends act this way . what it reminds of is when somenone has a terminal disease everyone there for you in the begining but after that it,they seem to avoid you like it's contagaous or something.sometimes i feel so alone.

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I don't know if you have exposed, but you need to.

Your daughter's graduation has already been ruined - by her mother's lies.

Expose the affair, and let your wife leave the home.

I wonder, though, if your daughter already knows? It is often the case that older kids know more than the BS...


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