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Cake or Death? #2376611 05/20/10 09:51 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,772 O OurHouse OP Member
OP OurHouse Member O Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,772	Sorry that one of our posters had that choice recently. Hope poster comes back and continues the dialog.

Re: Cake or Death? OurHouse #2376621 05/20/10 10:07 AM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 3,834 L lousygolfer Member
lousygolfer Member L Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 3,834	Huh?

Re: Cake or Death? lousygolfer #2376623 05/20/10 10:09 AM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 4,140 Island of Misfit Toys, AZ, USA M Mulan Member
Mulan Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 4,140 Island of Misfit Toys, AZ, USA	Cake, please. It's very nice. Me, BW WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.

Re: Cake or Death? Mulan #2376630 05/20/10 10:27 AM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 738 Alberta, Canada N NewPetals Member
NewPetals Member N Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 738 Alberta, Canada	You might get both....look at Marie Antoinnette - "Then let them eat cake!" WHAP. Overall, I do prefer cake. Me: BW, 27 Him: WH, 29 DD 4 DS 1 Married 07/25/09 A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner) D-Day: 3/31/10 2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010 3rd D-Day: 4/21/10 Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10 WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10 False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10 Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012 Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!

Re: Cake or Death? NewPetals #2376632 05/20/10 10:32 AM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,305 S Still_Crazy Member
Still_Crazy Member S Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,305	Well i guess it depends on the cake? If it is cake eating as we in SAA know it then i am not sure, even though death is pretty drastic.

Re: Cake or Death? Still_Crazy #2376640 05/20/10 10:41 AM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,247 L Lexxxy Member
Lexxxy Member L Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,247	was this TB?? Anybody know whats going on??

Re: Cake or Death? Lexxxy #2376642 05/20/10 10:45 AM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,305 S Still_Crazy Member
Still_Crazy Member S Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,305	I do not know who OH is talking about. It sounds serious though.

Re: Cake or Death? Still_Crazy #2376650 05/20/10 10:56 AM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 738 Alberta, Canada N NewPetals Member
NewPetals Member N Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 738 Alberta, Canada	Whoa - literally death?? I assumed it meant death of a marriage!!!! Hope everything is fine.... Me: BW, 27 Him: WH, 29 DD 4 DS 1 Married 07/25/09 A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner) D-Day: 3/31/10 2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010 3rd D-Day: 4/21/10 Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10 WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10 False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10 Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012 Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!

Re: Cake or Death? NewPetals #2376677 05/20/10 11:40 AM
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OP OurHouse Member O Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,772	Just wanted to provide a new home...LG's swimming pool was getting a bit crowded with all the rabble rousers. "Cake or Death" fits so well. I stole it from Eddie though. Love Eddie.

Re: Cake or Death? NewPetals #2376678 05/20/10 11:40 AM
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stillhere8126 Member S Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617	Ourhouse.....Now get your back here and explain yerself. BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.

Re: Cake or Death? stillhere8126 #2376680 05/20/10 11:42 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617 S stillhere8126 Member
stillhere8126 Member S Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617	Oh, simultaneous posting.... BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.

Re: Cake or Death? OurHouse #2376682 05/20/10 11:44 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617 S stillhere8126 Member
stillhere8126 Member S Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617	Originally Posted by OurHouse Just wanted to provide a new home...LG's swimming pool was getting a bit crowded with all the rabble rousers. "Cake or Death" fits so well. I stole it from Eddie though. Love Eddie. Silly. Last edited by stillhere8126; 05/20/10 11:45 AM. Reason: posting error.DOH!! BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.

Re: Cake or Death? stillhere8126 #2376683 05/20/10 11:46 AM
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OP OurHouse Member O Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,772	Just make sure you don't have a mouthful of coffee, soda, water, etc., when you watch it. It will wind up all over your computer screen.

Re: Cake or Death? stillhere8126 #2376685 05/20/10 11:46 AM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 3,834 L lousygolfer Member
lousygolfer Member L Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 3,834	Ahh, Besides Hooters Dancers and Pool Boys, We finanly find out what OH is bringing to EAT at the pool party! LG

Re: Cake or Death? lousygolfer #2376686 05/20/10 11:47 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,772 O OurHouse OP Member
OP OurHouse Member O Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,772	Eddie's bringing it. I'm a decent cook but a terrible baker. And the alternative (death) is not an attractive option.

Re: Cake or Death? OurHouse #2376691 05/20/10 11:51 AM
Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 738 Alberta, Canada N NewPetals Member
NewPetals Member N Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 738 Alberta, Canada	I almost died laughing watching that! Thank you - needed something like that today! Brit humour is great. Me: BW, 27 Him: WH, 29 DD 4 DS 1 Married 07/25/09 A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner) D-Day: 3/31/10 2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010 3rd D-Day: 4/21/10 Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10 WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10 False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10 Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012 Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!

Re: Cake or Death? NewPetals #2376699 05/20/10 12:03 PM
Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,993 V Vibrissa Member
Vibrissa Member V Joined: Mar 2010 Posts: 1,993	Curses! I was going to post that video! That's the first thing I thought of when I saw you post OH - very funny! Oh, well, I shall post this instead Me & DH: 28 Married 8/20/05 1DD, 9 mo. Just Lookin' and Learnin' HIYA!

Re: Cake or Death? Vibrissa #2376701 05/20/10 12:05 PM
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OP OurHouse Member O Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,772	Yes, that's the Lego version.

Re: Cake or Death? OurHouse #2376702 05/20/10 12:09 PM
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OP OurHouse Member O Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,772	Ok, here's another Eddie favorite. It's about fence sitting. I tell ya, he covers ALL the bases. I heart Eddie! Last edited by OurHouse; 05/20/10 12:10 PM.

Re: Cake or Death? OurHouse #2376708 05/20/10 12:20 PM
Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 3,686 Ankh-Morpork K karmasrose Member
karmasrose Member K Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 3,686 Ankh-Morpork	Personally my favorite Eddie Izzard video is the one where he does Darth Vader trying to order food in a Death Star cantina. One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger I will not spend my life this way.

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