Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 28 of 66 1 2 26 27 28 29 30 65 66
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 11,539
F
Member
Offline
Member
F
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 11,539
Ok, this is funny

[Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]



Faith

me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 6,986
P
Member
Offline
Member
P
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 6,986
Originally Posted by faithful follower
Ok, this is funny

[Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]

Love it!!


Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
*********************
“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 8,240
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 8,240
Thanx A LOT guys. You scared me. I logged on and saw that there were 20 replies I hadn't read yet. I thought something BAD had happened. Then I read them and it is mostly about smileys. Geez thanx. grin

BTW here is a pic of MEEEEEEEEE

[Linked Image from cool-smileys.com]

Last edited by Scotland; 05/27/10 05:04 PM. Reason: Changed the pic. I am NOT Bugs BUNNY :D

BW(Me)aka Scotty:37
DSx2: 10,12
DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09
Plan B Dec18/09
Personal R in works
Scotty's THING laugh
Newly Betrayed click here


Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM

“Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.”
? Maya Angelou

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

THANK YOU
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 4,083
K
Member
Offline
Member
K
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 4,083
Sorry Scot - Bugs has already been here for years - she just posted for the first time in a month or so today. she's pretty amazing though - good role-model for personal recovery. Bugsmom

Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 8,240
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 8,240
There. I changed the pic. laugh

Last edited by Scotland; 05/27/10 05:04 PM.

BW(Me)aka Scotty:37
DSx2: 10,12
DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09
Plan B Dec18/09
Personal R in works
Scotty's THING laugh
Newly Betrayed click here


Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM

“Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.”
? Maya Angelou

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

THANK YOU
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
Originally Posted by faithful follower
Ok, this is funny

[Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]

We need to bookmark this one for stubborn newbies who want to cut corners wink


D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!

Joined: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,617
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,617
OMG, you guys are hysterical...arent the smileys great, once Mark told me where to get them, I went crazy with them...some of them are sooo hysterical...I found a cute bunny for scotty...[Linked Image from planetsmilies.net]


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 11,539
F
Member
Offline
Member
F
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 11,539
Awww, I love the bunny and I LOVE that you all knew what I meant with that read the book smiley!


Faith

me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 8,240
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 8,240
Originally Posted by stillhere8126
OMG, you guys are hysterical...arent the smileys great, once Mark told me where to get them, I went crazy with them...some of them are sooo hysterical...I found a cute bunny for scotty...[Linked Image from planetsmilies.net]

I found those Bunnies too. But I thought it was TOO cute. I am not a girly gurl and I am not really into CUTESY stuff. It was a cutie though. I chose mine because it is BLUE and my fav colour is BLUE.


BW(Me)aka Scotty:37
DSx2: 10,12
DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09
Plan B Dec18/09
Personal R in works
Scotty's THING laugh
Newly Betrayed click here


Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM

“Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.”
? Maya Angelou

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

THANK YOU
Joined: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,617
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,617
When I think of bugsmom I think of her as ladybugs not bugs bunny...I think bugs bunny was fine for you Scottie, I love bugs bunny...


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 8,240
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 8,240
Thanx Still. Scotty is okay for me on these forums too. Hmmmmmm, maybe I should find a highlander pic and put it on here? Hmmmmmm

It's too HOT in here to THINK. +30C as a high today was too much. Glad tomorrow will be 22C but it will be raining.


BW(Me)aka Scotty:37
DSx2: 10,12
DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09
Plan B Dec18/09
Personal R in works
Scotty's THING laugh
Newly Betrayed click here


Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM

“Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.”
? Maya Angelou

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

THANK YOU
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
N
Member
OP Offline
Member
N
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
haha, imagine my shock when I saw I had 10 replies since I last logged on! smile And here we all are talking about smilies. smile

Scotty - you should be GLAD for the hot weather! You know what it's doing here right now? Frickin' snowing. I kid you not. Our backyard is all white again....and it's almost JUNE!!!! All the flowers we planted on the weekend are probably going to die now......sigh. [Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]


Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10

Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10

Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012

Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
Joined: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,617
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Nov 2008
Posts: 2,617
Sorry, NP about the smiley posts....I cannot believe it is snowing there...UGHHHH


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
N
Member
OP Offline
Member
N
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
hahah, Still, it's great, I love the smilies! smile

Still snowing here today. Gross. I had to brush my car off this morning. frown


Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10

Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10

Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012

Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
N
Member
OP Offline
Member
N
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
So, we had our second sessions with Steve this morning. Seems like a light went on in WH's head and he said he can see the logic in how we can fix our marriage, and he's agreed to treatment with Steve. WH told Steve that he can look at it logically and see that there is a way to fall in love with each other again. He has ALSO agreed to a NC letter, lifted straight from SAA.

Hooray!! hurray As Steve warned me, I'm still being guarded but I feel HOPE! I love Steve's approach - being an engineer and the kind of person he is, I know this is the sort of thing WH really responds to, the logic and the plan, and I think this will make all the difference.





Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10

Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10

Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012

Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
Joined: Jan 2010
Posts: 614
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jan 2010
Posts: 614
Originally Posted by Scotland
Thanx Still. Scotty is okay for me on these forums too. Hmmmmmm, maybe I should find a highlander pic and put it on here? Hmmmmmm

It's too HOT in here to THINK. +30C as a high today was too much. Glad tomorrow will be 22C but it will be raining.

[Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]Whats that in real temperature????[Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]


Me:BW
Dday:12/31/09-Found MB 01/03/10
3DstepChildren24&20
PlanA:01/03/10
PlanB:03/25/10
D final 11/15/10

"I dare you to find some time and some place to be silent for longer than usual; a few moments, a few minutes, a few hours. Listen to your heart, listen to your soul; and most importantly, listen to the silence to see what it sounds like and how it speaks to you."
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
Originally Posted by NewPetals
So, we had our second sessions with Steve this morning. Seems like a light went on in WH's head and he said he can see the logic in how we can fix our marriage, and he's agreed to treatment with Steve. WH told Steve that he can look at it logically and see that there is a way to fall in love with each other again. He has ALSO agreed to a NC letter, lifted straight from SAA.

Hooray!! hurray As Steve warned me, I'm still being guarded but I feel HOPE! I love Steve's approach - being an engineer and the kind of person he is, I know this is the sort of thing WH really responds to, the logic and the plan, and I think this will make all the difference.

Can I have a side of garlic breadsticks with the pizza? dance2


D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!

Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
N
Member
OP Offline
Member
N
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
Originally Posted by mymissy
Originally Posted by Scotland
Thanx Still. Scotty is okay for me on these forums too. Hmmmmmm, maybe I should find a highlander pic and put it on here? Hmmmmmm

It's too HOT in here to THINK. +30C as a high today was too much. Glad tomorrow will be 22C but it will be raining.

[Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]Whats that in real temperature????[Linked Image from bestsmileys.com]

Real temperature = +30. wink Who could survive in 90 deg weather? wink


Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10

Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10

Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012

Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
N
Member
OP Offline
Member
N
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 738
Originally Posted by maritalbliss
Can I have a side of garlic breadsticks with the pizza? dance2

Thanks bliss! As a matter of fact, WH and kiddo are supposed to come take me out for lunch here in a bit....but they seemed to have disappeared off the planet so who knows. I could go for pizza..... laugh


Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10

Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10

Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012

Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Oct 2009
Posts: 12,357
Originally Posted by NewPetals
Originally Posted by maritalbliss
Can I have a side of garlic breadsticks with the pizza? dance2

Thanks bliss! As a matter of fact, WH and kiddo are supposed to come take me out for lunch here in a bit....but they seemed to have disappeared off the planet so who knows. I could go for pizza..... laugh

Have a slice for me - you know what I like on my pizza! Actually, I only order anchovy because I know no one else like them and that leaves more for me grin So you can leave those off if you want.


D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!

Page 28 of 66 1 2 26 27 28 29 30 65 66

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 190 guests, and 47 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Gastelumattorney, lucasmiller, Demonolatry, Jose E. Martin, Frank Pro
71,895 Registered Users
Latest Posts
Really Struggling
by Demonolatry - 11/13/24 03:52 AM
20 appointments and $1000’s later…
by IrishGreen - 10/30/24 06:20 PM
Happening again
by jah - 10/29/24 10:00 AM
I grounded my wife - am I proceeding correctly?
by Mature - 10/27/24 02:05 PM
Children
by BrainHurts - 10/19/24 03:02 PM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,615
Posts2,323,459
Members71,895
Most Online3,185
Jan 27th, 2020
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 2024, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5