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Shh! He came back. I just saw him. Pretend nothing happened on his thread.
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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Shh! He came back. I just saw him. Pretend nothing happened on his thread.  my addition to the TJ, I have several pieces of cast iron cook ware. The ones I inherited are lovely and black with a almost reflective luster inside, because neither I or their previous owners use soap or soap products when I clean them. The pot I bought 5 years ago is still somewhat grey in colour but slowly developing a black patina inside. If your cast iron is going orange, it might need oiling. Can make the pot a bit sticky though. [/TJ]
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Bwahahaha....Thanks a lot Mr W now I have to take a swig of my asthma meds....I dont know if its from laughing so hard or from the pot....
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Shh! He came back. I just saw him. Pretend nothing happened on his thread. my addition to the TJ, I have several pieces of cast iron cook ware. The ones I inherited are lovely and black with a almost reflective luster inside, because neither I or their previous owners use soap or soap products when I clean them. The pot I bought 5 years ago is still somewhat grey in colour but slowly developing a black patina inside. If your cast iron is going orange, it might need oiling. Can make the pot a bit sticky though. [/TJ] OMG, OMG...Lil is talking about her cast iron cookware... ..Im gonna pee myself....
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Mark, Mark...its about time you got here. Lils talking about her cast iron cookware... ![[Linked Image from pic4ever.com]](http://www.pic4ever.com/images/25r30wi.gif)
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Well, GEEZ. I don't own any cast iron anything and I never smoked pot. I guess I can't play. ![[Linked Image from easyfreesmileys.com]](http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/free-cool-smileys-615.gif)
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y'all are smoking hoochie weed over here????  ![[Linked Image from sherv.net]](http://www.sherv.net/cm/emo/smoke/pimp.gif)
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Hey Still, I got this off of your webcam just now. ![[Linked Image from easyfreesmileys.com]](http://www.easyfreesmileys.com/smileys/lol-047.gif)
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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.....Wait, wait...Did you get that?
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Sorry, Tom. Take care, Okay ....Please move all HS humor to Mels thread.....
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Shh! He came back. I just saw him. Pretend nothing happened on his thread.
Dang, hang on! It's still burning!
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Sorry, Tom. Take care, Okay ....Please move all HS humor to Mels thread..... Ooops, sorry Tom - didn't think you'd mind a lighter moment...over to Mel's thread...
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bliss,
Is fine. I over reacted.
You have a good intellegence the way you respond to the betrayd here. Please do not give that up and go away.
Feeling better now. Thanks.
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I have not wanted to comment on her for awhile since I took Char to the assisted living center. And, that was back on June 8. Final analysis, they wanted her to live there, everyone if for it, her brother who controls her funds vetoed it apparently because he and his Third wife do not want to be bothered.
I wanted to vent and really pound someone. I did not. Now I feel my marriage has been totally violated. Sorry to all, but I do not have the funds now at this time to afford for $4500 per month in addition to what I need to live on. She attempted suicide on Tues nite at the nursing home, so now she apparently is done as far as any other place to live.
I dont know what the hell to do except fend for myself now. I do need to survive. I am still paying off her past medical bills. I feel impotent now and I am her husband but noting more I feel I can do is to pray.
I have a friend here now at the complex and her name is tanya. She stopped here this evening as I was just sitting on my patio here and looking at my garden. WE didn't talk much but she is going to stop in later. I just appreciated her. I told her that I feel now I gave Char my blood and she seemed to totally understand.
I am not going to divorce but at this time I feel Char is so totally gone and spiritually out of it that I honestly cannote handle this anymore. She is no where near the person I married. I learned from her counselor that she is spending time with some guy there and I have no say in that.
Ya know what...I am going to be age 68 on Monday. She..this woman here suggested a dinner out and she Does recognize that I am depressed for however she saw that, and she still wants to. I am not totally an invalid emotionally, I still work part time altho that job is going to end at end of this summer, and I volunteer for food pantry and now am in training again for a hotline couseling, but I know I cannot do that until I get myself straight.
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I have not wanted to comment on her for awhile since I took Char to the assisted living center. And, that was back on June 8. Final analysis, they wanted her to live there, everyone if for it, her brother who controls her funds vetoed it apparently because he and his Third wife do not want to be bothered.
I wanted to vent and really pound someone. I did not. Now I feel my marriage has been totally violated. Sorry to all, but I do not have the funds now at this time to afford for $4500 per month in addition to what I need to live on. She attempted suicide on Tues nite at the nursing home, so now she apparently is done as far as any other place to live.
I dont know what the hell to do except fend for myself now. I do need to survive. I am still paying off her past medical bills. I feel impotent now and I am her husband but noting more I feel I can do is to pray.
I have a friend here now at the complex and her name is tanya. She stopped here this evening as I was just sitting on my patio here and looking at my garden. WE didn't talk much but she is going to stop in later. I just appreciated her. I told her that I feel now I gave Char my blood and she seemed to totally understand.
I am not going to divorce but at this time I feel Char is so totally gone and spiritually out of it that I honestly cannote handle this anymore. She is no where near the person I married. I learned from her counselor that she is spending time with some guy there and I have no say in that.
Ya know what...I am going to be age 68 on Monday. She..this woman here suggested a dinner out and she Does recognize that I am depressed for however she saw that, and she still wants to. I am not totally an invalid emotionally, I still work part time altho that job is going to end at end of this summer, and I volunteer for food pantry and now am in training again for a hotline couseling, but I know I cannot do that until I get myself straight.
Tom So when the going gets tough... the tough become wayward. Have a nice time on your date. Really classy posting about it on the infidelity section of a marriage BUILDING website in front of hundreds of betrayed spouses. You are NOT entitled to female companionship. You are STILL married. If your wife is cheating on you...prove it and divorce her. THEN date. I'm sorry you are alone but that's not an excuse...only an explanation. Though you are obviously vulnerable you are also educated about the risks you are taking and how to avoid becomeing wayward...Yet you proceed into the abyss. Good luck with that. Mr. Wondering
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I agree with Mr. W. You are married; you should not date. Get a divorce if you need to, then make friends with women once it's done.
I also wonder why you have to pay her medical bills if her brother controls her money; shouldn't her money pay her bills?
I am feeling sad for your wife, who is obviously distraught enough to committ suicide. Can't you spend time with her?
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I have a friend here now at the complex and her name is tanya. She stopped here this evening as I was just sitting on my patio here and looking at my garden. WE didn't talk much but she is going to stop in later. I just appreciated her. I told her that I feel now I gave Char my blood and she seemed to totally understand.
I am not going to divorce but at this time I feel Char is so totally gone and spiritually out of it that I honestly cannote handle this anymore. She is no where near the person I married. I learned from her counselor that she is spending time with some guy there and I have no say in that.
Ya know what...I am going to be age 68 on Monday. She..this woman here suggested a dinner out and she Does recognize that I am depressed for however she saw that, and she still wants to. I am not totally an invalid emotionally, I still work part time altho that job is going to end at end of this summer, and I volunteer for food pantry and now am in training again for a hotline couseling, but I know I cannot do that until I get myself straight.
Tom Tom, There are a lot of young people depending on people your age to be better than this.
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