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Here is something interesting I read today regarding the type of OW today: http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/woman-who-cheat?page=1My H is currently having an affair with a 49 year old woman from work who is divorcing her husband(same age as my h) of 17 years and two teenage kids. My husband is 42 and I am 36 and we have 18 mts old son. My husband just filed for divorce after I discovered his affair that he still denies and calls it the alleged affair. He started the affair before our son's 1st birthday. We have been together for 9 years and married for 5 years. Aren't there anymore people in this world who believe in marriage?
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That article and some of the responses made me want to  UGH!
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
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But now there's a new breed of mistresses who, like Dina, doesn't fit the stereotypes of slut or sad-sack. Angelina Jolie was anything but hard up when she allegedly poached Brad from Jen. Film producer Rielle Hunter didn't boil any bunnies after she and political bedfellow John Edwards ended their extramarital affair.
They are not a new breed at all.. You can put lipstick on a pig; you still have a pig. Skankho's have never been portrayed primarily as the bunny boiler in Fatal Attraction; there are many more movies where the adultery is glorified and romanticized.
Remember Bridges of Madison County where Glenn Close is portrayed as a nice sweet farm wife who just happens to meet her "soul mate" when her husband and sons are at the annual county fair? She ruts like a pig in her marital bed with her adultery partner and the movie portrays this filthy pig in a beautiful light.
Nothing has changed. Maybe more people are pigs, but it doesn't mean a pig isn't a pig. Pigs are pigs and always will be.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Angelina Jolie was anything but hard up when she allegedly poached Brad from Jen. Film producer Rielle Hunter didn't boil any bunnies after she and political bedfellow John Edwards ended their extramarital affair.
But....they are still pigs, as evidenced by their behavior. They are no better than a common bar wh*re. Having money does not cover up who they are really are.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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My apologies to pigs for the insulting comparison.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Whoa....who put this pic of WH's POSOW up???? Oh ... wait..... lol!!! I think men are just as disgusting. Whether or not they were "poached," let's keep this real. They poached from the OW's husband just as much as she poached from his wife.
Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10
Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10
Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012
Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!
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Here is something interesting I read today regarding the type of OW today: http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/woman-who-cheat?page=1My H is currently having an affair with a 49 year old woman from work who is divorcing her husband(same age as my h) of 17 years and two teenage kids. My husband is 42 and I am 36 and we have 18 mts old son. My husband just filed for divorce after I discovered his affair that he still denies and calls it the alleged affair. He started the affair before our son's 1st birthday. We have been together for 9 years and married for 5 years. Aren't there anymore people in this world who believe in marriage? Unfortunately, It seems like the only people who believe in marriage anymore are the ones on this forum.....everyone seems to have lost respect for each other, themselves and the sanctity of marriage.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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Remember Bridges of Madison County where Glenn Close is portrayed as a nice sweet farm wife Except that it was Meryl Streep, who was also in Falling in Love with Robert de Niro, about an affair that actually break up a marriage. Streep has had what seems to be a successful, long-term, low-key marriage. She should shun such films.
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Remember Bridges of Madison County where Glenn Close is portrayed as a nice sweet farm wife Except that it was Meryl Streep, who was also in Falling in Love with Robert de Niro, about an affair that actually break up a marriage. Streep has had what seems to be a successful, long-term, low-key marriage. She should shun such films. ahhh, you are right! It was Streep! My apologies to Close!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Stillhere, I agree, we in this forum are the only ones who believe in marriage. I am still trying to make a go of this failed marriage (cant see how though)
WS has apologized and said he will make amends after I left the house since he would not put NC in place. Yet by 2 weeks after he was buying them (OW and OC) gifts as "thank you for work done" (OW works for him). The disappointing part there was he asked me if I wanted one and I said no because it doesnt fit me and yet, a few days after, he goes to ask OW what her shoe size is.
And I guess they do this because their brains have shrank to pea size and then some a mustard seed which shows a big shrub (that's the outside of their brains just a body)
Me BS: 52
WH: 52
Married: 28 years, happily (prior to A admission 11-9-09)
(OC born: april 3,2007 or is it feb 3, 2007)DNA result is negative 3-5-2010
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Bridges of Madison County was actually with Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep
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Bummed that Women's Health is promoting filth. I'm sure this article is a hit over on that "other" site.
I used to like that magazine. Won't be buying it anymore.
Me BS 61
Him FWS 63
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D-Day 6/30/06
Still can't believe it.
6/08 Recovering nicely. Anything is possible!
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