To all of you veterans that have posted about the tendancy of WS to affair down.

Your words have helped me cope with many feelings of not being good enough. They have allowed me to take a second look at who the OW really is and how she really compares to who I am.

I know that when I found out about OW I kept thinking, couldn't you at least pick someone cute? I have never been the biggest fan of my looks, so after seeing her I just could not understand why he would choose her. But now it makes sense. WS affair down.

Thanks again.


Me - BS
Him - WS
Discovery 3/26/10
NC letter mailed 5/27/10
NC letter recieved 5/29/10
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Recovery may not be an option. Seriously looking a plan B/D