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OT: How's this for a book title
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When Good People Have Affairs
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Re: OT: How's this for a book title
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Originally Posted by ManItsColdUpHere
When Good People Have Affairs
by Mira Kirshenbaum

Sorry, but this is a dumb book that will destroy your marriage if followed. It was likely written by a waytard who is looking to justify adultery. This review says it all:

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Kirshenbaum not only maintains that divorce may not be such a bad thing in certain circumstances (and here, my experience teaches me that she's not all wrong on this), she also advises husbands or wives who have affairs not to go home and own up, because discovery of the truth can cause more damage than concealment (I hate to agree with her but in some situations I've often wondered the same thing.)

She also writes:
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Kirshenbaum writes: "You've moved ahead in life but your spouse has stayed behind. Having an affair is your way of being with someone you think better matches your circumstances."

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Kirshenbaum writes: "You need help of some sort - maybe boosting your self-esteem - and an affair is your way of getting it."
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Re: OT: How's this for a book title
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