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Hi all, <BR>Sorry I haven't been around for a while, I went on my business trip. I found it impossible to concentrate on work and training. All I could think was that the OM was with the W. I got back and immediately started looking for clues that he was there. I found a few. I didn't want to start w war so I didn't say that I suspected anything. I guess if I give her enough rope she'll hang herself. I'm glad to be back. I'll try to keep up with the postings and reply as often as I can. Talk to you all soon.<P>------------------<BR><BR>That Which does not kill us makes us stronger.<BR>
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keep your emotions in check.<BR>glad you're back<BR>keep us posted.<P>dosen't it suck hoping not to find anything and then finding something? its worse than death, beleive me.
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covenant,<BR>Thanks for your reply. I really missed it here. You all are the only people that understand how it feels to be betrayed. I think the SOB drank my beer. My W doesn't drink and a six pack is missing. Oh, I can't wait until one day we meet. I'm gonna kick his A$$ and than charge him for my beer.<P>------------------<BR><BR>That Which does not kill us makes us stronger.<BR>
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robilar,<P>When I went on business trip back in June... W had OM come over and do the "daddy act" for my kids. She didn't hide squat! But the lying sure did escalate.<P>Hope you're doing Plan A-ing to the hilt... but keep your conversations with W open and honest... if she is in full fledged affair... she'll be lying her head off anyway (soon if not now.)<P>This must be a hard time for you now...<P>It will get harder...<BR>For me... the hardest part is when she moved out... and now he(OM=sponge) lives with her.<P>My prayers are with you.<P>Jim
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