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Hey all I posted on the Military Marriage Forum, would like some more insight please My post Thanks, Jason
Finally Healing working towards the day when I can be a good partner, and choose someone good for me.
Most Current relationship ended with her cheating and kicking me out on the streets.
2 PA 1999 w/ IA.
1 EA 2002.
IA & PA 2003/2004. (while I was deployed and brought the bast*** around my boy)
Thinking is easy, action is difficult; to act in accordance with one's thoughts is the most difficult thing in the world.
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
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Hi all,
Been a long time since I posted here. Previous fiasco of a marriage is dead and gone.
I am in what I thought was a good relationship. It has been 5 yrs that we have been together, been through one deployment with her, and unlike my first 2 wifes/fiancee she did not cheat on me and over all made it a tolerable deployment.
Now I have another deployment comming up (#4) and it seems like she is trying to push me away. Keeps doing things she knows upset me, damn near doing what the last one did. All i know is i'm tired and can't fight like I did the last one.
Anyway, kinda just need input now
Thanks Having you tried just coming out and talking with her about it?
Enacting life's lessons into positive change... .
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Several times,
Lately she just dismisses it, pretty much acts like it does not matter. Her reasoning is that she is "Too Mad" to really care bout what I feel.
She got home tonight, 2 hrs after her shift is up..no call. More or less ignored me and says she is going to her "sister's" house.
At this point I'm looking forward to the deployment, combat is less stressfull.
Anyway, dont feel like sitting on the computer tonight. I'll check back later
Thanks,
Jason
Finally Healing working towards the day when I can be a good partner, and choose someone good for me.
Most Current relationship ended with her cheating and kicking me out on the streets.
2 PA 1999 w/ IA.
1 EA 2002.
IA & PA 2003/2004. (while I was deployed and brought the bast*** around my boy)
Thinking is easy, action is difficult; to act in accordance with one's thoughts is the most difficult thing in the world.
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
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