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Thank you so much. I am NOT like this!! Or at least, I wasn't. SL, I will make a plan. I will find an attorney, I will get him out of the house.
PK, I was being somewhat sarcastic when I said BH was divorcing me because I did not show repentance sexually enough. I see how wrong that is. And now I am doing something about it.
I AM divorcing him because he is a twisted creep.
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I AM divorcing him because he is a twisted creep. Now, change the title of this thread to a more empowering phrase, cuz right now, you need all the strength you can gather, and stinkin thinking aint gonna get you there.
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How do I do that, I'm ready!! (Said a la SpongeBob!)
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It's been a while, but I believe you need to go to your first post on the thread, hit the edit button and then edit the title.
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No edit button left, bummer.
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Ask the mods to change it for you.
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Thanks PM, now I have to think of something good!!
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How about, "I WILL Survive!"?
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I did think of that-
I dont' want to insult any BWs or BH's- I know I was the wayward, but I have earned my F, I guess.....
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How about, "I WILL Survive!"? I like the new thread title...took me a second to find it though...LOL. Waiting for you to make that call.
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HTH,
Have you called an attorney?
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Hmmm, interesting twist. Monday night BH wakes me up and says he loves me and will do whatever he needs to to stay married. I basically tell him no more "that kind" of SF at all, no "smoking," we must treat eachother with love and respect. He says fine.
I have SAA, will buy lovebusters and HNHN and "feed" BH the concepts.
WE shall see.
The thing is, I'm not afraid anymore. If changes are not made, I will get him out. I know what I need, I know how to handle a D if it comes to that, I know I will be fine.
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Hmmmm, that was quick and easy. Hope it's for real.
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Me too- and if it's not I'm ready.
THing is- he's never done this at all. I have been the one to beg and plead- and I didn't. I was totally calm, totally the opposite of what I'd been doing.
So we'll see.
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Me too- and if it's not I'm ready.
THing is- he's never done this at all. I have been the one to beg and plead- and I didn't. I was totally calm, totally the opposite of what I'd been doing.
So we'll see. Any chance he has been reading your thread here on MB?
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none, we have no internet at home, my computer stays at the office, we dont' have internet capability on cell phones, he hasn't even been at the library.
And honestly, if he knew i posted here again he'd be furious and I'd know he read here.
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