I have copies of chats but she told me not to show them because if I will do that I will show them no respect.

Her parents know about her infidelity but they said it didn't matter because it took place before we moved in and have a child. They also told me that I am a bad father because I didn't take our daughter out of the bed right after she began to cry and her mother told me that she could get fever.

Her parents also used to treat me like their son and they expected that I would behave like they wish. I had to be at their place every weekend to prove them that I love their daughter. They didn't allow her to come to my place because girlfriends don't go to their boyfriends' place, boyfriend have to come to girlfriend's place in their opinion. And her mother doesn't find a big deal a fact that I moved 160 km from my workplace because I rented apartment in the city where she studied and that I had to drive every day to work. And on the weekend they expected me not to be tired and to look happy when I talked to them. Her mother told her daughter that I should have talked more with her husband and that I must talk more with their relatives when they would come to their place.

I apologized them because they said I was cruel to tell her to leave and that this is not what a normal human would do. To tell mother with child to leave. They said to me that I should have talked to her and that they won't speak to me. They also told me about every fight GF and I had in our relationship and all was my fault.

Her parents know about her infidelity but they said it didn't matter because it took place before we moved in and have a child. They also told me that I am a bad father because I didn't take our daughter out of the bed right after she began to cry and her mother told me that she could get fever.

When we talk by phone and when I am tired and not talk too much she can't stand it and asks me what's wrong. She says that I should talk to her in loving tone of the voice and when I don't it is not right.

I don't know why she can't understand that every person is tired from time to time and that after all she has done to me I have right to be in bad mood sometimes.

She set me also her conditions for me if I want her to give me second chance :



- I shouldn't have bad days in the future
- even if I am tired after work I should be nice to her parents and pretend that everything is OK
- I must try to talk more with their relatives
- I should allow her parents to do with our daughter what they want when we are at their place. Her father is very proud of her and love to take her with to show her to his friends/relatives
- their parents thinks that I am not loving father because once I didn't take our daughter out of bed immediately when she cried they said she could get fever because of crying
- I must talk more to her father because her mother noticed that I didn't talk enough to him
- I mustn't be that impulsive and telling her to leave anymore
- I mustn't get angry at her and we shouldn't have fights because that means that I don't love her

She shouldn't have moved in with me in our apartment, we should have lived at her parents' place. They resent me because of that. They also told her that she was fully dependent on me financially for year and half because she has studied and only I have worked. When I told her to leave she said to me that by law I must take care financially of our daughter and her.

I shouldn't have told her friends I am going to test for STDs. They are angry because of that.

I'm really confused... I haven't ever imagined that someone who cheated on me would set me conditions for second chance...