What I find ironic is how can a WW who was married for nearly 10 years never get pregnant by her BH manage but managed to conceive a child after rolling around in the mud with her OM for only 6 months?

What's up with that? She was so careful not to conceive a child with her husband. Why could she not have been as careful with her OM?

On top of that how can a WW not learn her lesson the first time around? How can she go on to conceive a second child with same OM? Technically this baby was not conceived during an affair but is a result of an affair relationship none the less. A person could go mad trying to understand the mind of a wayward. I have gone mad trying to understand the WW I happen to know.