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Advice PLEASE!!!! OW just cornered my husband in his work truck. My WH delivers water, OW apparently saw his truck and parked in front of it. She asked him "why can't we be friends?" blah, blah, blah! sunshine - you and FWH need to (1) call the police and tell them what happened and (2) get a restraining order. If she blocked his car and prevented him from moving about freely, guess what? That's kidnapping. You don't have to touch the person or take them anywhere to make it kidnapping. Call the police. They will explain it to you and FWH and to OW. Another reason why adultery is considered "bad" by all those rigid judgmental people - because you end up committing it with people like her. Just a clue.
Me, BW
WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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Thank you, Mulan!! My WH and I thought of calling 911 after it happened, but decided if she EVER does that again, calling 911 will be the FIRST thing he does!!! POSOW has been arrested several times before and has spent time in jail, so I am sure she would be in BIG trouble!!! We are sending an NC letter out in hopes it will stop her contacting him FOREVER!!! I am just so upset! What gives her the right??!!?? I know, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!
BW(me)41
WH 40
DD19, DS16, DD14.
M19 yrs. Together 21yrs
D-Day 05/05/2010
Trying to work on M together with MB principles.
What's meant to be will always find a way.
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We are getting the NC letter together to send out tomorrow. My question is: Does the NC letter usually stop the OP from contacting the WS? How many times do people, in general, need to send one? I honestly can't see this stopping POSOW, but I will feel MUCH, MUCH better when she receives it! Kinda like a slap in her face. I believe once POSOW realizes WH and I are working on our marriage and love each other very much, the contact may actually stop. (At least I hope it does.) I know I contradicted myself in this post, but this POSOW is a NUTJOB!
BW(me)41
WH 40
DD19, DS16, DD14.
M19 yrs. Together 21yrs
D-Day 05/05/2010
Trying to work on M together with MB principles.
What's meant to be will always find a way.
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