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This is a total whiney "me" moment......  I'm having a rotten day..... So I go to the oral surgeon to get a tooth pulled, like that isn't sucky enough!!!! And as the dentist is taking some pre-historic looking tools to my poor mouth, what comes on the radio???......... Stupidestasssongever....."Lips of an Angel".....followed up by " Far Away".....The two affair songs the infidels dedicated to each other CONSTANTLY......  They are the only triggers I cannot seem to handle.........  THAT ticks me off.....it's been 2 yrs..... I hate affairs..... I've taken two Vicoden (for the tooth, not the trigger.....  ). When I wake up I hope this day will be better.....  Not
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This is a total whiney "me" moment...... I'm having a rotten day..... So I go to the oral surgeon to get a tooth pulled, like that isn't sucky enough!!!! And as the dentist is taking some pre-historic looking tools to my poor mouth, what comes on the radio???......... Stupidestasssongever....."Lips of an Angel".....followed up by " Far Away".....The two affair songs the infidels dedicated to each other CONSTANTLY...... They are the only triggers I cannot seem to handle......... THAT ticks me off.....it's been 2 yrs..... I hate affairs..... I've taken two Vicoden (for the tooth, not the trigger..... ). When I wake up I hope this day will be better..... Not Not, That is freaking weird. I had almost the exact same situation occur to me. Music is a tough one. I think it has a lot to do with the way you internalize the lyrics and such. Plus, it's a proven way to reinforce memory. Hence, musical triggers being a total PITA! Just my luck huh? Anyhoo, being the computer wiz you are, after taking 2 vicodin you should probably step away from the keyboard now.  Want2Stay
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Sorry, Not. I hope you sleep through both the trigger and tooth pain.
It is so annoying to be somewhere, doing something and out of the blue, there's a trigger. And in the dentist chair, you can't even leave the room. Yuck.
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BW - 70
WH - 65
M - 35 years
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H broke contact 11/1/09
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BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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Sorry little sis. That is a crappy day. Hope things look and feel a little better when you wake up.
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Well I liked the title of the thread because I agreed with it.
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Sorry you had to suffer through hearing those songs Not. I totally understand. There are songs I cannot bear to listen to and it will be 10 years since Dday August 1st. I can usually change the station or get out of the room, but have had to suffer through those songs on occasion. The ow in my case actually dedicated one of 'our' songs to my FWH. So I feel for you. It just sucks rocks, but at least you can come here and vent. {{{{{{{{hugs!}}}}}}}  Love in Christ, Miss M
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Yeah, not...2 Vicodin?
You could end up turning your PC into a Linux and have no farking clue what the heck went on.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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Oh Not, "Lips of an angel." ARGH. THAT is a HORRIBLE song and I HATE it because Bampot knew all of the words to that stupid song. I used to ask him why he knew the words to THAT song.
What about "Follow Me" by Uncle Kracker? ARGH X 1000
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I don't know those songs, but I am sorry they came on at all, esp when you were in a dentist's chair. Dr. House takes Vicoden, and he is waaay cool. So now you are waaay cool too
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Hey, there is something we have in common Luri, both enjoy us some House.
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I thought House stopped taking Vicodin recently?
Then again, I haven't watched in a while.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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He did stop, but he is still a really cool guy, love his character.
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Ewww. I just Googled the lyrics to Uncle Kracker and never knew what that song was really about before. Gross.
Shortly after my D-Day I heard the song 'Lips of an Angel' and was immediately struck by it and it's meaning. At one point (in the dark days) I actually wanted to put it on my I-Pod, which thankfully I didn't because it made me feel so bad to listen to.
It is amazing how powerful those songs can be.
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Probably looked down upon that I always liked that song.
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I don't know any of those songs. I'm a big nerd. I still like Chicago. But I can tell you all sorts of stuff about Lil Wayne, Justin Beiber, and Taylor Swift (my students' favorites).
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Not, we all know how those triggers work. They totally suck. I hope you feel better soon. 
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XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
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Luri, it is a song about an affair
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Look on the bright side, it could have been during a hemorroid surgery.
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I always wondered why my WW stopped listening to "Take It On The Run" by REO Speedwagon. She liked the song at first, no complaints. Then suddenly when that song came on she would tell me to turn it off. Hit a little too close to home I guess.
The problem is now it bothers me to listen to it as well. Music is a big trigger for me and I'm always around it so it sucks.
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Separation 12/28/09-
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