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Hey all; I have not been posting much, but I have been reading almost daily. Many people seem to be on a neutral or down turn in their situations (JMHO), I am here to tell you... KEEP UP THE EFFORT! Keep reading, posting and investing in yourself and the power of YOUR GOOD INTENTIONS. .....thats all. Just hadda come out! 
Me; W 46
Him; H 46
2 girls
DD19
DD16
Dated/Married total 28 years.
..I am learning and working on myself.
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Thanks Barbiecat! Some days we all just need to hear that :-)
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Barbiecat, thanks for the encouragement.
Always fighting the good fight.
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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Thanks, I needed that  Upturn here but been down for a little while. Rollercoaster, ick! I think a post like yours does so much for people here who are hurting so badly. Thank you.
BW-me-56
FWH-GreenMile-62
Married 1982
2 wonderful grown sons
D Day #1 4/1985
D Day #2 10/03/08
D Days continued for a while.
Started real recovery 07/15/10
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Thanks it's always good to hear from someone else and giving us the encouragement we need to stay strong and focused......
BW 56
WH 57
Married 25 years, live together for 2, dated 2 years before that.....
DS 23, DS 25
D-Day Nov 23/09
NC Mar 1/10
Working on Recovery
Grateful for finding Marriage Builders
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Yes, thank you very much. Some days it is really really tough. Thank you.
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I believe that advice goes to us sorry waywards too.
Some days my taker starts to get discouraged but then my giver kicks in and keeps doing what it needs to do to repair the damage I have caused.
For those of us in that position...keep fighting.
Last edited by deerhunter71; 07/16/10 02:08 PM.
Her side is also here.
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