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Ugh. I don't know how i am here again. 5 years ago my husband left...having an A with a married woman. Long story short i put up with alot, did plan A...plan B...for 2 years...then i gave up..he saw an attorney and we planned to be divorced. He changed his mind after a couple months and we decided we wouldn't follow through with papers and try to work on things. Still seperated we were going to take things slow as to not hurt our son any more than he had already been.
After 2 years of taking it slow (still living seperate)we were moving forward--somewhat--He had never acted remorseful of A and never really apologized...or anything for it. (CALL ME STUPID...i thought it was just because he was having a hard time accepting what he had done). I had finally reached a point were i knew something had to give. We needed to either be together or divorce. After talking with him about it he agreed and said we should move back together. We had been talking about it with our son who was so excited that we would be a "whole" family again...then boom.
I was told by some of my friends he was seeing a woman who is one of my son's friends moms. They had been hanging out at the ballfield after me and my son left. When confronted he denied but the OW had been telling everyone they were dating (she is single) After finding out she was telling everyone he finally admitted, told my son we were divorcing and that he was dating OW. 5 days before we were having lunch together discussing houses. 2 days after me finding out he filed for divorce.
My son had a breakdown on him-wouldn't see him for a couple weeks. After that he broke down saying he was a "bad person" and that our son and i deserve better than this.
Just needed to come here for support...MB helped me so much in past. I just cannot believe i fell for it again...A#3. This will get better right??
BW: 37
WH: 38
DS: 8
M: 8-26-95
D-Day: 8-24-05
Seperated: 8/24/05 WH was living next door at his mom's hanging out at our house all the time until... AUGUST 28th, 2007....I moved out...2008 we started reconciling...still seperated but moving forward...getting ready to move back together...until boom JUNE 2010....a new affair begins...NOW...
I have filed for Divorce.
Living by God's grace daily!!!!
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Divorce him and get a happier life, he apparently doesn't respect you, and doesn't care for you. You are better off with out him. Just be smart, go see a lawyer, so you are financially set up. GOOD luck...and sorry you are here again 
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