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I don't have access to my H's cell phone, he kepts it attacted to him at all times and he is constantly texting people now among other things that make me supect OW. I've read about 3 different products online that will give me remote acess to his blackberry just need to install once than able to check activity online.

Flexispy
Moble spy
Moblisteath

Has anyone heard about these products, I just found a review online and then looked on their websites. Has anyone used any of these? I might be able to get his phone long enough to install product hopefully but I can't get it enough to use a sim reader that is why i need something that will send activity by email or look online. Help me please.


Me-25 FWW/BS
DH-25 BS/WH (user name DRO)
M- 4/17/2004
DS-4 OC born 12/10/2005
D-Day 1 4/4/2008 (my A)
DNA test #1 4/17/2008
DD-1 born 6/11/2009
D-Day 2 7/20/2010 (H's A)
DNA test #2 7/23/2010

NC yet to happen between H and OW........
R not yet able to happen


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I have bumped the Spying 2010 thread for you, mm. It has a few posts about Blackberrys, some of them towards the end of the thread. Most people seem to support Flexispy.

Spying 102 - 2010 Options


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My sister and also her friend used Flexispy.

From what I recall the Flexispy was pretty easy to install but you will definitely need to get the phone into your hands for a few minutes at least.

It is basically a keylogger, giving you reports of what is emailed BUT there is something it won't record, I think certain IM chats? If you need to know for sure, let me know and I will email my sister. HTH


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has anyone heard about the other 2?? I'm looking to basically check on the texts, he has been deleting them all. Claims that he need to delete them cause it's causing issues with his phone working right, WHATEVER. The other 2 offer gps but because of the type of blackberry he has flexispy don't i'd have to use the flexi light only. I'm not sure if it's worth getting flex for the phone and buying a gps to put in his car or getting one of the other spy ware for his phone would be best.


Me-25 FWW/BS
DH-25 BS/WH (user name DRO)
M- 4/17/2004
DS-4 OC born 12/10/2005
D-Day 1 4/4/2008 (my A)
DNA test #1 4/17/2008
DD-1 born 6/11/2009
D-Day 2 7/20/2010 (H's A)
DNA test #2 7/23/2010

NC yet to happen between H and OW........
R not yet able to happen


my story
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I'm not sure if this will be any help or not but I have e-gps on my Blackberry in case it ever gets lost or stolen. You can send a message to it and it will email you back the location of the phone.

However, the problem is the app icon shows up on the applications list.


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Originally Posted by marinemom
has anyone heard about the other 2?? I'm looking to basically check on the texts, he has been deleting them all. Claims that he need to delete them cause it's causing issues with his phone working right, WHATEVER. The other 2 offer gps but because of the type of blackberry he has flexispy don't i'd have to use the flexi light only. I'm not sure if it's worth getting flex for the phone and buying a gps to put in his car or getting one of the other spy ware for his phone would be best.
Have you read the whole Spying thread, mm? Somebody there will have answered you questions. I have no idea about the answers myself.


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