Sorry, haven't had the time to read everything yet. With so little time left I'm trying to do all I can in such a short period time to save my marriage.

Here my situation: After 24 years of marriage my wife has filed for divorce. The problem: we have spent the past several years putting the wants and needs of our kids (3 boys) in front of our needs, and she no longer feels she loves me. I am still deeply in love with her. At our preliminary court hearing I requested that the court order marriage counceling, and was granted that request, even though she opposed it. I can see from what I have read on this site that our withdrawls have far out weighed our deposits. The only possible way I see my way back into her heart is through kindness (making deposits). Our court ordered counceling starts Aug 2nd. I guess what I'm looking for are ideas for deposits, to a non-receptive wife. Any ideas and help would be appreciated.

same here, mine hasnt filed , and and i damn sure dont want to.

2 kids 6 and 3.

shes chatting up with the old boyfriend, and some one she hardly knew from grade school

both guys have multiple kids and are married and/or in a relation ship with babys mama " "

my other half im afraid is unresponsive in part due to medication, , for fibromyalgia, by unresponsive i mean only by making a wisecrack , punching you in the shoulder, and carrying it on will get a rise out of her , no response really to compliments,

i do however get a response for hanging up new pictures, of the kids, and cleanning the house..

depression sux a55 !! shes a childhood fan.