Well despite my best attempts to stop it my wife of 16 years is moving forward with the divorce. I will go to my grave feeling that what she did was cheating. I will not go into all that on here though. I created a thread at one point and explained it and many jumped on the band wagon and said that it was infidelity that she was doing. While I hate it and can't stop it, I am here only to ask for some good books to read that might help me out.

So any recommendations for a guy on dealing with going through the divorce and surviving it post divorce? I've made my peace with it at this point. I am just looking for healing now. I also want to move on and remarry at some point. So books on that process are also welcome.

I can only say these things after weeks and weeks of counseling and many $$'s spent on therapy to get my head right. I did make mistakes, but in the end she made the decisions that ended our marriage and I will not feel guilty for those or allow my self to be drug into that guilt.

Thanks,
BK