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Sorry I've missed this thread.
Thanks for bumping, this conversation has been most useful. Instead of being resigned to the assumption that my WW would refuse to leave, I will definitely talk to a lawyer first and have my ducks in a row (would have done that anyway). With knowledge of my legal rights and the right persuasion (I like the idea of packing all her [censored] up and leaving it in the garage), she may just do it.
We had mixed weekend, some good and some same old/same old. Not near ready for plan B, that's just a fallback if I were to discover contact.
One last thing, I'm not sure that 180 plan and plan A are as diametrically opposed as is being presented. I may take a closer look and put down some thoughts on my thread. I was really struggling with the "no expectations" part of plan A, where at least thinking more in the 180 mindset helped me there tremendously.
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bumping for review...... sheeshhhhhhhh...... 
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BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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