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Hi Gang,

Chrisner and lil doggie and all the others, I thank you all.

Think a troll was here. Will have to do damage control if needed.

Owe you all for watching this thread


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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I have to say, kinda confused and cannot find your original thread?


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D final 11/15/10

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We think there was a troll...reading my thread from the beginning...


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Maybe I'm ignorant but how does that make them a troll?


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Originally Posted by karmasrose
Maybe I'm ignorant but how does that make them a troll?

Did you have your thread deleted?

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A troll as in PP?


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Dday:12/31/09-Found MB 01/03/10
3DstepChildren24&20
PlanA:01/03/10
PlanB:03/25/10
D final 11/15/10

"I dare you to find some time and some place to be silent for longer than usual; a few moments, a few minutes, a few hours. Listen to your heart, listen to your soul; and most importantly, listen to the silence to see what it sounds like and how it speaks to you."
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Originally Posted by mymissy
A troll as in PP?

A bunch of Mbers noticed a junior member was reading my thread all day.

could be. Didn't know pigs could read


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Sometimes they fly; I guess they could read.



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3DstepChildren24&20
PlanA:01/03/10
PlanB:03/25/10
D final 11/15/10

"I dare you to find some time and some place to be silent for longer than usual; a few moments, a few minutes, a few hours. Listen to your heart, listen to your soul; and most importantly, listen to the silence to see what it sounds like and how it speaks to you."
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You know, that's interesting. I've noticed a couple of long-standing threads seemed to *poof* vanish in the past few months. Wonder if these waywards and homewreckers are getting a little too big for their britches. Stick to cheatin', pal!!! That's what ur good at!
Sorry hope, for the loss of your thread.


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Originally Posted by imanotherone
You know, that's interesting. I've noticed a couple of long-standing threads seemed to *poof* vanish in the past few months. Wonder if these waywards and homewreckers are getting a little too big for their britches. Stick to cheatin', pal!!! That's what ur good at!
Sorry hope, for the loss of your thread.

I agree there were some long standing ones that ended. I hate to lose all the insights and discussions that were in that thread, especially school bus interpretations.

Wish my feelings could disappear like my thread.


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Think "Anonymous" troll is back.



Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Wow Hope. I am so sorry this happened. That person was on your thread all day. Started at page one and kept going for hours. Was still on at 5:30 when I got home.

I have not seen the screen name today but they don't have to log in to browse.


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That is strange. Chris, I hate to ask, but how can you tell?


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6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Nevermind. I just figured it out.

Now I'm paranoid....


BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Originally Posted by chrisner
Wow Hope. I am so sorry this happened. That person was on your thread all day. Started at page one and kept going for hours. Was still on at 5:30 when I got home.

I have not seen the screen name today but they don't have to log in to browse.

Chris, I would never have noticed till you told me how to look it up. Do you remember what page they were up to or at least what month?

Wondering if the initials of the junior member was RW??

Just want to protect the innocent that have helped me.


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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It was cb(somethingsomething)0402, I think.

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Originally Posted by wildhorses74
It was cb(somethingsomething)0402, I think.

thanks. hate trolls... twoxfour


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Don't you wonder what they think at the end of a thread when they find us all commenting on them reading?

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Originally Posted by wildhorses74
Don't you wonder what they think at the end of a thread when they find us all commenting on them reading?

stickout

That they are going to H@ll and got caught with their pants down...again!


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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I'd love to see their faces... shocked

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