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Re: Where to start
RedsWife #2379053 05/25/10 12:22 PM
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RW, Great news and thanx for checking in. I am happy for you in figuring out all of the MB ways and how to apply them in everyday life. laugh

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Re: Where to start
Scotland #2379080 05/25/10 01:03 PM
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Great news RW! Thanks for the update!! Just remember, trust but verify. Sounds like you are on the path towards a good recovery and a great marriage. Keep making him accountable and keep working the MB principles. You will do great!

Don't be such a stranger around here! Come back and help the rest of us pay it forward....
Re: Where to start
mindshare #2416793 08/14/10 05:53 AM
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Checking in again. R has been going well. I'm so thankful to have found MB. WH has expressed how hurt & sorry he is for the level of pain that his EA caused. He has started HNHN without my prompting. I will read it once he is done.

I hope everyone is doing well. I will try and come back more often to help others and keep myself on my toes.

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DH EA 4/08-01/10
Dday #1 05/08
False recovery b4 I knew about MB 07/08
Dday #2 01/10
NC 01/10
Re: Where to start
RedsWife #2416796 08/14/10 06:30 AM
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Thanks for the update, Reds! Happy to hear things are going well smile

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Re: Where to start
SusieQ #2417045 08/14/10 11:03 PM
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Hey RW! So good to hear from you and hear your positive update! That's great news! You shouldn't give up hanging around her ya know.... Still plenty of lessons to learn... wink
Re: Where to start
mindshare #2418662 08/19/10 12:01 PM
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Thanks SusieQ and mindshare!

Yes, definitely, there are plenty lesson I need to learn :-) It's a daily struggle still for me to work on DJs and asking rather than telling. I am doing much better than I was but I want to be doing even better in this area.

I have a question about what kind of personal recovery a WS goes through? We are both working on R the M by following the MB plan. I am healing from the hurt and etc. I just want to understand H's side of the fence since he has made an effort to do that for me. I plan to talk with him about this of course but wanted to get input from others about what's going on in the WS's mind while they are coming out of the trenches of the A.

I miss hanging around with everyone here, I'm thankful for my new job but it has severly cut down the amount of time that I spend on the net smile

Married 9 yrs.
DC 7 & 2
DH EA 4/08-01/10
Dday #1 05/08
False recovery b4 I knew about MB 07/08
Dday #2 01/10
NC 01/10
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