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Regarding affairs, I have read that when they end they usually do so without anyone noticing. Ofcourse your spouse isn't going to run home to tell you their affair ended. What experiences have you all had regarding this issue-especially if you've been separated, spouse has maintained they want a divorce and has not been living at home. <BR>
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Staying strong,<P>In my case my W rang me and said she had finished it with the OM was ready to put our marriage back together....<P>We had been separated for some time and had discussed and agreed to property cash and other asset division and settlement but had not got to divorce.....<P>I had told her long before her phone call that I had finished with the OW and was living on my own and wanted our marriage back....she at that stage did not want to have our marriage at all...it was some 3 months or so later that she rang me, much to my surprise...<P>cossie...<P>------------------<BR>To know who you are is to see who I am....<P>
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My H admitted his 2 month affair and ended it upon exposure. He said that he didn't like the person that he had become.<P>I was ready to take the kids and leave him, but he pleaded with me for another chance. I gave our marriage a 2nd chance and so far, despite the ups & downs, we are recovering well.<P>p.s. I think that even though they say it is over, there is always some doubt in your mind. Until some type of trust is regained, you will naturally question it.
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