I know there was a recent discussion about this, but I could not seem to find it when I was looking..

WH and I began talking about JC last night, so I started wondering what it would take for me to feel safe again. (by safe I mean not wondering if he is going to take off and contact OW again, even though there has been NC since D-day)

I am still very angry and very resentful. I know that being only 5 months post d-day, this is to be expected. But I don't like the constant anger and I WANT to move away from it. Unfortunately I still feel like I am in a holding pattern waiting for the other shoe to drop so to speak.

Because of this I started remembering the article on JC. But I realized that I never had a clear understanding of JC when I was reading the article.

Can someone give me a clearer understanding?

Is JC just meeting the BS's needs and implementing EPs? Or is there more to it than that?

Pretty much that is it. But the goal of all this is to affair proof the marriage and to create a romantic relationship using the basic concepts of MB. That means much more than just meeting needs. I requires weekly UA time, avoiding lovebusters, using the POJA, the whole program.

Here is Dr Harley's article about Just Compensation: here