And we are still living here...should I be still having these feelings of betrayal every time I walk in here after work?

I sure would! I can't imagine not being triggered every time I walked in the door. The solution is to find another home.

I would put the house up for sale, rent it out, and MOVE out TOMORROW

Each time I walk in the house it would be a HUGE set back on our marriage, the sooner you are gone and out of that house the better.

Also BURN anything they had sex on!

Can you give us more details on your situation?

How old are you and your WH?

Kids?

Have you exposed? If so how? Who knows?

Have you exposed to the OWH? If not why?

What is he doing to make sure this does not happen again?

My DH brought the skank into our home overseas and had s*x with her in the bed we slept in before I moved there. I didn't find out until the day before we moved back to the US. When we got back to the US, I took every piece of linen, sheets, towels blankets and threw them in the dumpster. As the moving company took them off of the truck I made my DH pack them into our truck and I drove about ten boxes of stuff to the dumpster and threw them in there. I actually vomitted thinking about I had laid on the same bed they did the nasty on. How can a woman do that, and how can a spouse to that? I also made my DH sell our SUV because he rode her in it. I imagined that skank sitting in an SUV that I was helping to pay for and it made me red hot mad and disgusted with my DH and stupid women who sleep with MM. Anyway, I think you should sell the house ASAP. I know it must be torture coming home every day knowing that some floozy was there messing around with your DH.

MOVE!

Is your only hope on continuing your marriage. Can you give us more details??

I am a BS/WW. During the time I was a BS, when I found out, OWH had caught OW at my house with her clothes off, waiting for my H to get home. Afterwards, my H SWORE to me that they had never been together at our house and that he was shocked to know that she was there that day. We moved from the house and I sold the entire bedroom suite with the house. I didn't have proof but was not taking any chances!

I think she had gotten scared because my H had started to pull away from her, trying to end it, and she was desperate. Gosh that was over 10 years ago and it still makes me sick when I think about it. How I could have ever done the same thing still baffles me. I just thank God that we are past all of it and recovering.

I moved out from the house where WH and OW had sex. It helped tremendously to move to a new house and buy new furniture.

I agree with the others that moving would be best. I would end up being triggered every time I walked in.