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Re: My Exposure Plan
fight4life #2425206 09/08/10 08:30 AM
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I'm experiencing deja vu. I think I already read this thread, but the poster was named Humbled.

So what did Humbled end up with?

You should go read his thread. He, like you, felt he knew better. He had it all under control and we were all full of it and just didn't understand his very unique situation.

What did he find? That contact continued.

So he did the right thing, exposed, and completely killed the affair since he had the decency to contact OMW, who became his biggest ally. They have effectively killed every subsequent attempt for his WW and OM to communicate.

The affair is dead and she's going through withdrawl.

But, that was Humbled. Clearly fight4life is unique and there's no way his WW is the same as the rest of them.

So all of you lay off him! He knows better! MrRollieEyes
Re: My Exposure Plan
helpthelostdads #2425207 09/08/10 08:38 AM
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Please understand this.....Exposure is not only to break up the A but also to hold the A person accountable for what they have done. The fallout from exposure is humilating and embarrassing. For most people (I was a slow learner) it is something one never wants to experience again. It is a teaching moment that says...."Look at what I have really done". Most people who have A's never stop and think about the pain to causes even those not directly related to the situation. It causes them to see the devastation that has been created by this mess called an affair. It is not intended to hurt the person but to slap them into reality!
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itsamess #2425214 09/08/10 08:55 AM
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I guess you have it all figure out then.

Have a good life and good luck.
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