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I feel so lost and confused, mad and angry like many newbies to this. I am almost 4 months in,and now after him leaving and me dealing with that betrayal and no amount of my words would make him stay, he now is so sorry and wants to work things out. My reality keeps changng, I didnt think I coud live without him, and when I started to he is sooooosorry. and is working on changing thru counseling. But why do I have to keep going through so much hurt? I dont want that hurt to ever ever happen again and the abandonment I felt.... I didnt think I would even make it through a few months when it happened.
Me 32 WS 33
3 boys 11, 8 and 3
Married 12 years, first marriage
Met AP, first one at work, second a reconnction of old friend from HS
First A lasted 2 weeks, second a few months>>>he says
Found out about first AP because he was upset with me when i didnt accept him leaving, the second i found a few months before he left he claimed they were friends and that was changed after he left
Book ordered
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The question here is what do YOU want to do?
Have you read all of the material on this site? I see you ordered the book, is that SAA.
I gather from your post that your WH lives out of the house. Is it his own place? Is he staying with someone? Are you ready to set that bar HIGH?
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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