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I saw you posted your first post on Atena's thread. Here is one for you. Welcome and sorry you are here. I am new to the sight and am in Plan B after my H seems ambivilent weather he wants me or the OW. He had an afair with a co-worker, he travel alot and she traveled with him,
He told his boss this week and says she is resigning. I am not sure if I should go to HR with this information - we need his salary, but I want him to experience some type of consequence. I have two boys 5 and 18 months. He has been out of the house for 1 month. We both in therapy separatly. He is depressed so I do not know if goingto hr will lift the fog or not. He is still emotionally attached to this woman. We started talking about a week or so ago, went to dinner- me thinking things were going well all the time he was making plans with her for the following weekend, I gave him the ultimatum, if you go it is over, He cancelled, but until he tell me she is out of the picture for good I will not speak to him, just facts about the kids.
I want the fog to be lifted and I need this woman out of my life.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Here is a thread I started to help guide new posters around the site. http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2370240#Post2370240Answer the questions in the first post of that thread, on here, and then read all of the links. Whenever you have questions, feel free to ask. This is a hard long road but there is something amazing waiting at the end of your journey. Welcome
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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