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It should have been for mine. Almost 4 years now and still not a single peep. He hates me.

Tabitha's son doesn't even know about the computer. He came from having nothing, an abusive white trash father to our home. The boy adores me. I gave him his first 22 rifle a few weeks ago. I found an old one that needed alot of work and restored it. It was absolutely perfect when I gave it to him.

He told his father I gave him the rifle, about me teaching him how to cook and bringing him to the hawk center to help out. Things that he would have NEVER experienced back home.

My boss is taking us to the wild game brunch at the vineyard's restaurant nest month. I will give him his computer then as his birthday is days before. He'll be beyond thrilled. As thrilled as when I let him take the yoke of the airplane.

I should be doing all these things for my boy.

This is bittersweet and just keeps the anger toward my exwife kindled.


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Originally Posted by Pariah
It should have been for mine. Almost 4 years now and still not a single peep. He hates me.

Tabitha's son doesn't even know about the computer. He came from having nothing, an abusive white trash father to our home. The boy adores me. I gave him his first 22 rifle a few weeks ago. I found an old one that needed alot of work and restored it. It was absolutely perfect when I gave it to him.

He told his father I gave him the rifle, about me teaching him how to cook and bringing him to the hawk center to help out. Things that he would have NEVER experienced back home.

My boss is taking us to the wild game brunch at the vineyard's restaurant nest month. I will give him his computer then as his birthday is days before. He'll be beyond thrilled. As thrilled as when I let him take the yoke of the airplane.

I should be doing all these things for my boy.

This is bittersweet and just keeps the anger toward my exwife kindled.

I am so sorry. This breaks my heart. PAS is terrible. I'm assuming that is what has happened....don't know your story.

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My boy hates me because his cnut of a mother told him I abandoned them. She divorced me because I caught her cheating.

That is the condensed version.

I am starting to feel nothing but indifference for mine. If he ever contacts me, I will be thinking just what does he want.


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It's not your son's fault, surely you won't hold it against him, he's caught in the crossfire.


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I have a much better job than teaching now, much more money and I guarantee if he contacts me it will because the soul sucking harpy will have pressured him into it to get him a car.


I would buy Tab's son a new car before I even considered mine a used beater. Tell me you hate me and I'm done with you for good.

Revenge is not a dish best served cold, it's a buffet. So many things to choose from.


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So why is it you don't care for your own son??? Do you somehow blame him for what you've been through?


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Kayc--

Pariah's been through a LOT. I do mean a LOT. If his son was a good son he wouldn't be estranged from him and believe a pack of lies fed to him by the harpy of an XW.

What does this have to do with Pariah's blaming the son for what he's been through? I don't think you'd want to talk to someone if they turned on you like Pariah's son seems to have done with him.

Also, Pariah--

Never thought of revenge that way, I'll keep that in mind.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.

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