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Hi there
I have created a new thread, if you have time it would be great if you could follow. Thanks for all your support to get me to this point.
Thanks again
Harmony
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Feb 2009 - Affair starts, physical for 9 days on business trip. Mar 2009 - Separate from H, live alone Apr 2009 - realise I have made big mistake and attempt reconciliation with H, establish NC with OM. Jun 2009 - H physical and emotional serial A start right upto present day. Jul 2009 - NC with OM broken and becomes EA Mar 2010 - H reads email and discovers A Jul 2010 - Discover MB Aug 2010 - Plan A starts Oct 2010 - Plan B starts
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Feb 2009 - Affair starts, physical for 9 days on business trip. Mar 2009 - Separate from H, live alone Apr 2009 - realise I have made big mistake and attempt reconciliation with H, establish NC with OM. Jun 2009 - H physical and emotional serial A start right upto present day. Jul 2009 - NC with OM broken and becomes EA Mar 2010 - H reads email and discovers A Jul 2010 - Discover MB Aug 2010 - Plan A starts Oct 2010 - Plan B starts
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Hi You,
Have not been on here for several days - busy at work and with son and wife. I just posted to Igrip and saw your post.
It took me awhile but I know who you are..I am just hoping you were not intending your post for Tom2009 instead of me - Tom 2011! *s* just my silly sense of humor that I offer.
That being said, I will catch up on your sitch this week - I am not sure what I can offer honestly at all except support and prayers.
Tom
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Can you update us?
You are so much stronger than you think you are. Remember that.
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Hi Seeking and Harm,
O vie - just posted to someone else tonight. Sometimes I feel that modern men do not get it.
Seeking and Harmony, it isn't that women today should have to feel that they are 'strong', or 'stronger'; It is that they have to feel respected and loved. That takes a good deal of humility and self-respect on the part of men today. And, yea well confidence. Unfortunately I feel that alot of men today don't grasp that. I am far from perfect, but I do listen to my 'better half' as well as to my God to realize that I am not King Kong.
Best wishes and prayers for the both of you . Now, I have to cook and then watch another Randolph Scott western tonight.. ya I am an old fogie, but I that sort of trite stuff...*s*
Tom
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H, I know you are tech savvy so you know the terminology. Do a core dump. We will make sure you are safe.
It's OK.
All those feelings have to go somewhere. Let us take your hand.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
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Hi Guys - See I managed to stalk you all down!
I am doing OK actually, had a rough day yesterday, when overthinking takes over and I convince myself of all sorts.
Back on form today.
Hope your all well, and Tom that movie sounds errmm interesting?! I have never heard of Randolf Scott but will look him up, maybe its because I am English, or too young not sure which?!!
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Feb 2009 - Affair starts, physical for 9 days on business trip. Mar 2009 - Separate from H, live alone Apr 2009 - realise I have made big mistake and attempt reconciliation with H, establish NC with OM. Jun 2009 - H physical and emotional serial A start right upto present day. Jul 2009 - NC with OM broken and becomes EA Mar 2010 - H reads email and discovers A Jul 2010 - Discover MB Aug 2010 - Plan A starts Oct 2010 - Plan B starts
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overthinking takes over and I convince myself of all sorts. I have an overthinking problem myself. Try to remember that the messages we send ourselves are sometimes the most powerful. Surround yourself with people and signals that validate your values. How was your class? I HATE that stuff. If you are really mad at me, make me look at fabric samples. If you are really, really mad at me, make me go to the mall .... which is where I have to go today. Blech. I know you are hurting -- feel free to email me at wifeonawire@gmail.com if you think I can be helpful. Tom, that movie sounds errmm BORING. Reminds me of my youth when there were only 4 channels, and some sort of western was always on one of them.
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Hi Tom
Yes had a look into Randolf Scott, I think I might give it a miss if you don't mind!!!!
Extract:
Randolph Scott (January 23, 1898 � March 2, 1987) was an American film actor whose career spanned from 1928 to 1962. As a leading man for all but the first three years of his cinematic career, Scott appeared in a variety of genres, including social dramas, crime dramas, comedies, musicals (albeit in non-singing and non-dancing roles), adventure tales, war films, and even a few horror and fantasy films.
LOL!!!!!
Enjoy though...:)
Hi Seeking
Thanks for your email, thats very kind, I might just do that.
The class was good, I really enjoyed it and met some really nice people. Yes interior design is a passion of mine. I love the whole piece including the architecture of buildings and design, garden design and modern buildings...
I also just started growing my own fruit and veggies, thats kinda cool too. I love to shop I am into the whole fashion thing...Well a girls gotta look good.
I still need to work on my yellow pad list, its empty at the moment.... yikes.
Agree with you on the movie, poor Tom, we are giving him 2x4s on a completely unrelated subject?!!!
Harmony x
BW/FWW 34 (Harmony) BH/WH 36
Feb 2009 - Affair starts, physical for 9 days on business trip. Mar 2009 - Separate from H, live alone Apr 2009 - realise I have made big mistake and attempt reconciliation with H, establish NC with OM. Jun 2009 - H physical and emotional serial A start right upto present day. Jul 2009 - NC with OM broken and becomes EA Mar 2010 - H reads email and discovers A Jul 2010 - Discover MB Aug 2010 - Plan A starts Oct 2010 - Plan B starts
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If you need a lift, hunt down the Killer Bees reunion thread. It is the funniest thread I have ever read.
[Hitch2007]Well a girls gotta look good.[/quote]
Part of self care my dear.....
And get busy with that yellow pad!
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If you need a lift, hunt down the Killer Bees reunion thread. It is the funniest thread I have ever read. Well a girls gotta look good. Part of self care my dear..... And get busy with that yellow pad!
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