Hi Sheba,<BR>How are you today honey? Better I hope. Don't you wonder what the h___ goes on in this world?! I know I do. My H was returned by the aliens who left me an SOB in his place for 2 years. It was like the light finally came on in his head and he said, "Oh yeah......!" This is my second marriage and my first I was suisidal all the time. I am so thankful that God managed to keep me safe while I struggled. You have good and loving heart, Sheba. I know that you only want to love and be loved by your "alien" husband. Even if you do sign the papers you know it's just papers. Marriage is in the heart, not in the lawyers office. I think I know the frustration you're feeling and the isolation. I wish I were there to give you a big hug. (I could send you several of my kids and grandkids, lol) However I know you will survive, good hearts need to survive.......there are never enough! I love you Sheba and think of you every day. We both know God has a plan but don't you wish you had an inkling of what it was?! Me too! Hugs Sheba, and bless you for watching out for me.<BR>Love, Karen<BR><P>------------------<BR>alleyoop<BR>